I'll start this off by saying that I am quite inexperienced. I was always into the dynamics of a D/S relationship, but never really got the chance to fully explore it. Thankfully in all my relationships my partners were on the submissive side, but never truly a D/S dynamic. As a matter of fact, I'm new to the BDSM world in general (though I have done some research on it).

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Some physical stats - 5'9", Asian, average body, clean/DDF, dark hair and dark eyes with glasses.

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As for the nerdy bit - I enjoy playing PC games, watching anime, taking scenic pictures, and just being a general introverted (INFJ) nerd. As for music, my taste varies but currently in a R&B/Lofi mood. I'm also 420 friendly and an occasional user myself for medicinal purposes. Although having similar hobbies would help keep the conversation flowing, it is not necessary. I'm more interested in our chemistry together. Outside of the bedroom, I'm a calm, easy going guy with a laid back attitude which is the complete opposite of my personality once were in the bedroom.

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I'm looking for someone with a submissive personality. Someone I can trust and give my all to, and vice versa. Also, keep in mind that I am inexperienced and value communication above all else. I'm not quite sure how to describe my dominant self yet. Perhaps something closer to a gentle dom? However, I have tendencies to be strict and demanding. I've had bratty partners in the past so I don't mind a bratty submissive either. Overall, if you're an open minded submissive with a bit of a nerd streak, we'll get along. I would go deeper into my kinks, but we can save that for a conversation when we get to know each other. I do respect any hard limits you may have and wouldn't ever push a boundary you weren't willing to push.

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I'm able to host and would love to take you out on my days off. Let's get to know each other, explore our kinky selves together, and have a good time. If you're interested, feel free to PM me a bit about yourself and a way to contact outside of Reddit. We can also exchange pics during that time. Lastly, please be within reasonable driving distance.