I like to take things a bit āproperlyā at first. Discuss kinks, expectations, limits, goals, and anything else. I know most people donāt even think about some of these things at all, but itās part of my process.
Iām 37M, 6ft, and about 150 lbs, and in the US.
Iām a nerd on a variety of levels lol. Gaming, science, fantasy, D&D, anime, whatever.
But letās talk about the fun stuff, thatās why weāre both here.
Kinks:
Iām a sadist, I enjoy reactions. Pain and pleasure, pain caused by pleasure.
This is why I will want to see your face. It can take a little bit of time to get there for the āfunā pics, but if youāre not going to do a quick swap early on then you wonāt be comfortable doing what I will want you to do.
TPE (light) I enjoy making decisions for my sub. From day to day things, outfits, food, whatever. With an online dynamic true TPE is nearly impossible, especially with work getting in the way. So I prefer to do this through training, tasks, and setting expectations. Control is easier when youāre trained properly.
Conditioning is second nature for me. I like long term goals and so I can condition you for them. This is something I donāt take lightly and normally avoid anything that could cause issues later unless requested or long term.
Coaching/training. You need to learn how to give a blowjob, how to deepthroat, how to position your body during sex, how to talk and respond.
Near Slave dynamic. We can talk about this more though.
You should be comfortable sharing pics and videos. With an online dynamic this is an expectation that we canāt get around. It might take some time to share much, thatās understandable. But I want to see the pain and pleasure in your eyes.
Others in a listā¦. Anal, orgasm control, degradation, humiliation, tasks, outfit control, and Iām sure a few others.
Limits: Scat, blood, brats, diaper play, Iām sure a few other things.
Yes, I do not like brats. Over time I donāt mind some fun banter, but it doesnāt work for me with an online dynamic.
What Iām looking for in a sub.
Physically I prefer athletic, petite, skinny, and I tend to like the āheavier but used to be athletic and want to work out againā body type. It holds up well to the abuse.
Age: I prefer 25-35. Iāll consider outside of that.
Apply with a DM.
Tell me your body type, what you look like, age, top kinks, limits.
Then tell me about the dirtiest or kinkiest thing youāve ever done. Give me a few sentences on it.
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