I'm a 43 year old pleasure Dom who also finds intelligence sexy in a partner. I'm looking for more than just a random one time session, and for this reason, building a connection and being able to chat outside of the scene about non sexual subjects are essential to me. Honesty is my core value. I enjoy being like a mentor toward my sub. I believe there is always something to learn about the lifestyle, no matter how experienced you are, so being eager to learn and explore is important to me. Practicing BDSM is as an escape for me from daily life to unwind my brain and relax, so I hope we will be able to create such comfortable atmosphere for each other. I am single but I don't mind if you are already in a relationship, as long as your partner is aware of what you do in here and approves it and you can spend enough time online (No, they don't need being involved at all, just them being informed about what you do in here is enough).

I have a job and life like you do, so I understand that neither of us can be available all the time in here or any other platforms that we decide to continue this on, but I don't think daily check ins or short messages take that much time from either side and it shows the importance of this relationship to the other side.

The sub I am looking for is supposed to be: female (preferably bi), between 25 to 55, nerdy, has a good sense of humor, obedient but not passive, prefers healthy foods, has a strong personality in her daily life, is direct and enjoys long chats, likes to know how things work.

Having cuckquean/hot-husband fantasy (without the degrading aspect of it) is a bonus but not essential.

Ok, now a bit more elaboration kink-wise ;)

My Kinks: nipple and breast play with mild torturing, verbal degrading/humiliating, orgasm control (not into denial), over stimulation, soft impact play, CMNF.

My Limits: blood, scat, anything illegal, CNC, TPE, DD/lg, ageplay, raceplay, breeding, giving bruises or permanent marks.

Not a big fan of : anal play (but it's negotiable), big tattoos, piercings in places other than ears or belly button, fake boobs (breast cancer survivors excluded)

If you feel that our kinks align and we're on the same page then hit me up so we can discuss further through chat and see where it goes.