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Hey there! :) I am a sweet, intelligent, playful, nerdy, athletic Pleasure Daddy Soft Dom, looking for a like-minded, silly sweetheart who is fun, eager, enthusiastic, clingy, affectionate, and obessive like me.
I desire a meaningful and rewarding dynamic focused on mutual pleasure, mental intimacy, and warm, friendly conversation. I am passionate and positive about life and know exactly who I am. I have a lot to give, and I want to build mutual trust, connection, and healthy obsession with a woman who shares my love for kink, kindness, and wholesome communication.
Ideally you are hypersexual and insatiable too and love to please (and be pleased) as much as I do⌠but maybe it's your dirty little secret, and you're longing for someone to finally unlock and unleash that naughty carnal hunger you have been starving to satisfy. Let me help you, guide you, teach you, mold you, corrupt you... whatever you need me to do, to help you become the perfect submissive, craving to give me pleasure as much as I crave to feed it to you in return.
Highlights
- Mutual effort and reciprocation.
- Eager, enthusiastic, clingy, horny, affectionate, obsessive.
- Playful banter and flirty teasing. Match my energy, Iâll match yours.
- Easygoing yet heartefelt and substantive chatting; casual, but not careless
- Communication and weekly scheduled play time (as time and schedules permit; quickies and teasing are always an option).
Me
- I am 28, 6â2â tall, former competitive athlete, attractive: dark features, freckles, big red lips
- Patient, kind, confident, playful, generous, sweet, [emotionally] intelligent, passionate, nerdy, creative, curious, love learning and trying new things, very open minded and eager to grow and expand my perspective
- Down to earth, very good with words & communication & teaching, very secure and self assured, INFJ Business & entrepreneurially minded, strong work ethic, big ambition and imagination
- Hypersexual, insatiable, kinky Pleasure Daddy [soft] Dom
- I am experienced with online dynamics, and being a dominant.
- I am in the US, and my timezone is EST. I am looking to mostly talk Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, as I work super long days Monday-Thursday. I expect to have "normal" hours in the near future, though. Depending on our schedules, I'm willing to invest time over the 3-day weekend to make up for the busy week!
Hobbies
Swimming, working out, hiking / nature, playing some sports, traveling, dancing, snowboarding⌠reading, writing, drawing, baking, cooking, piano, coding, video games, board games, game design / worldbuilding, TTRPGs, movies / TV series / anime, technology, psychology, etc.
Kinks
Reciprocated enthusiasm and focus on partner's pleasure, oral, praise/worship, orgasm control/edging, mirror play, overstimulation/gooning, dirty talk, dirty names, spanking, [mutual] masturbation, light pain, light choking, breeding, cumplay, sexting, semi public/risky play (aka covert exhibitionism), teasing, toys, tasks (to list a few)
Limits
Age regression, animals, fluids (besides spit and cum), diapers, rimming, violence/abuse, cucking, femdom, etc.
You
- 18â30, give or take. Not super picky here, as long as it makes sense.
- Submissive. While I enjoy playful teasing, I prefer someone more service/pleasure oriented rather than a full on brat. I want to have fun with you, I donât want to have to put you in your place every single time we talk.
- Ideally high sex drive, loves sexting, affectionate and expressive, sexually open and curious to explore, able to adapt and be flexible, eager to learn about me and put in effort, and enjoy giving / receiving attention & affection.
- Puts in effort, matches my energy, is friendly and chatty, an eager and enthusiastic and obsessive typeâŚ. Basically if youâre going to reply with 3 words whenever we talk, and have the enthusiasm of an 80 year old asexual man, I donât know if we will have much compatibility.
- Someone who resonates with some if not all of the following: genuine, warm-hearted, compassionate, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, open minded, curious, passionate, enjoys talking about different things, puts in effort, has various goals, dreams, and hobbies, and is good with communication, texting, etc. Basically, be a good, decent, human bean. Who maybe likes masturbating a lot, like me.
Dynamic
- Despite the rather serious tone, I want something light hearted, pleasant, fun, playful, encouraging, productive, and even a bit sweet. :) Online. Mostly text based to start. Primarily sexual. This is the focus, that guides and governs our interaction and connection. But lots of non-sexual too.
- Every dynamic looks a bit different. I want us to get to know each other and build it our way.
- Setting a loose schedule for when we can chat/play.
- Emotional, mental, sexual reciprocation.
- Verification required at some point, once comfortable. I have a simple but guaranteed method.
- Establishing safety and comfort â discussing kinky concerns and âbest practicesâ, including but not limited to consent, safewords, subspace, subdrop, subfrenzy, etc.
What I Am NOT Looking For
- married women
- drama
- dishonesty
- immaturity (nothing to do with age)
- ghosting
- marriage / moving in together
- men / dick pics
- rushing into things
- being a sex dispenser
Message Me
Send a Chat (or DM). Please include:
- A bit about yourself: appearance, hobbies, timezone, etc.
- What you liked about my post
- Why you think we might be a good match
- Some of your favorite kinks / some kinks I mentioned that you like
- Anything else you would like to share
Bonus points if you include a picture. Iâll reciprocate :)
I don't expect you to be perfect, nor should you. That being said, effort is obvious. If you want to stand out, going above and beyond will make you stand out. ;)
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