28M Boston. I am 5’10 160lb. I have light brown skin. brown eyes and shortish black hair with short facial hair(mustache and beard). Average to lightly muscular body, and am looking to the continue getting bigger I like a mix of nerdy and athletic activities.

Hobbies that I like:

Going to the gym. Mainly weight lifting and some cardio. I'm definitely interested in doing more fun/intense cardio like spin classes and am starting to do yoga. Playing tennis at least once a week. I try to play year round. If you don't play, that's fine as I am more than happy to help you learn. Skiing. I mainly ski in the north east, but usually go out west once or twice a year. I would love to have someone to ski with during the day and then cuddle up with back at the cabin. Video/board games, I mainly play multiplayer games as its a way to do stuff with friends I cannot see in person that often. I have a large steam library, and am open to adding more even though I probably haven't gotten through 1/8 of them. I like both simple and complicated board games. Reading, I mainly read fantasy and sci-fi in the past, but have now opened up to literary fiction and non fiction. We can start our own book club of two? Movies. I watch a fair bit of movies and would have loved being an amateur film critic in another life. I mainly enjoy any movie that isn't a standard movies. I love long, thought provoking movies as well as simpler movies. I have a list of classics/older movies that I want to get through Spending time with friends, whether that be travelling together, sports, or just relaxing. I don't think what you do is important, as much as the people you spend your time with. Cooking/Being a foodie. I am a pretty adventurous eater and love to try different cuisines and generally never say no to trying food. I started cooking during COVID and hope to continue getting better at it. Would love to cook for you, or even better have you join me in the kitchen. I am generally a very adventurous person and enjoy trying new things. I am more than happy to learn about your hobbies and join you in them, help you join me in mine, or find something new we can do together. As much as I don't think partners don't need to have things they enjoy in common, it definitely makes things easier!

I graduated from a good college with a computer engineering/computer science background. I work as a software developer for a big tech company that you probably use in your daily life on a hybrid schedule. It gives me the flexibility to travel, so as long as you are in the US/Canada, I am happy to try to make something long distance work as long as the intention is for one of us to relocate in the future. I would prefer if you had a career of your own that you are at least slightly interested in or are in school.

Now for the kink/relationship aspects.

Generally in a relationship I have a lot of affection to give, and no issue showing it as long as I feel that you want and love receiving it. I want to us to think about each other when we first wake up and when we fall asleep. I want us to be dedicated and obsessed with each other. If you are someone that loves to voice call/ face time at night even better. I have no issue moving fast if we get along that well and we have that strong of a connection. I am generally laid back and enjoy finding the humor in anything and get along best with people who have a goofy/silly side. I date with intention for a long term relationship and would like to find someone I can marry and have a small family with. I was raised Catholic, but don't currently practice. I am open to practicing again if that is important to you.

I've been a Daddy Dom for the past couple of years. I like all aspects of ddlg from the softness to the more taboo aspects (not required). I get a long best with clingy and needy little girls that want a Daddy to care and dote after them. I've been told I have a nice and calming voice. I love needy little girls that can't get enough of their Daddy and cant help but cling to him, as that matches my possessiveness. Outside of the sexual aspects of DDLG, I also enjoy things like brushing my little girl's hair, dressing her up, cooking for her, bathing her, putting her on my lap, and generally anything that feels nurturing. Kink feels the best for me with someone that I can have an emotional connection with. I am big on after care for both of us. If you are shy or new to ddlg, I am more than happy to ease you into it and go at your pace. I'm also open to having a dynamic outside of the bedroom(some rules) , but nothing too intense.

I generally enjoy the mental side of kink and have the occasional slight sadist streak. I am girthy and uncut. The only kink that I absolutely need in a dynamic is ddlg, everything else is negotiable. Other kinks I enjoy:

Praise Affectionate Humiliation/Degradation Spanking/Light slapping Roleplaying Dollification Breeding Sleep play Coercion/Fear play Oral fixation Deepthroating Light bondage Size kink/over powering Orgasm control/denial/ruin Some taboo kinks that I am happy to discuss privately. I am open to a lot of kinks that are not listed here, but my limits are: Blood, Scat, Vomit, Permanent markings, Bruising.

My only real physical preference is that you are skinny/slim/in shape.

If any of this speaks to you or that clingy girl that is waiting to burst out, reach out with an intro. Otherwise, good luck on your search.