For those not knowing about what a Madonna-whore dichotomy is, the simplest way to explain it would be feeling attraction only towards a slut (whore) but being unable to feel that attraction towards someone else you respect but who is just pudic (madonna).

Thinking about it, I was wondering... Could it be possible to combine both?

I am a dominant figure in bedroom, with my good amount of dark and twisted fantasies and cravings. The primal and most dominant side taking the best of me basically. However this dark side is just bound ti bedroom/kink dynamics, outside of it I am far from being misogynistic or disrespectful. I am actually sweet, and much of a caregiver. It is funny because dichotomy is what I am looking for but also what I offer. Craving to take control of a slut, use her and degrade her but at the same time treating her like the madonna figure I have mentioned.

Writing this post I welcome everyone who knows this dichotomy and would like to talk about it (either for good or bad) to get in touch, it is always intriguing to share insights about deepest kinks. But I am also looking for an experienced sub and, well, experienced slut to build a dynamic together based on this.

Amongst my kinks there is a huge craving to have control but I am not aiming to make this a 24/7 TPE. I am also not a crazy fuck who expects control right away or who does not take in consideration priorities. BDSM is a lifestyle but should also be discreet and I am someone who REALLY values boundaries and communication. I also made an entire post about an actual 'condition' that makes me attracted to degraded, broken and almost ruined sluts. That should give you an heads up of what being my sub would imply. Oh, bonus points if you are a cumslut. Who does not love that?

Instead of what I am looking for let me spend few words on who I am. For those interested I consider myself attractive. That is subjective of course but on average I have been told so. What truly matters is I am attentive, willing to spend time to create something long term and meaningful. At the same time I can safely promise I am so much fun. If we have that like minded chemistry, you won't regret being mine or used by me. Looking for something online just because it is easier in my current country and I generally have very little time gaps issues.

What about you? Is there any darker craving that gets you going?