47 [m4M] #online - seeking Dom for TPE accountability
I am looking for an attentive Dom to help me with accountability for sticking with a mostly established schedule, one that I have not been sticking to since losing my last Dom.
I have ADHD and I struggle with motivation in a big way. A few years ago while serving a Dom online I discovered by happenstance that where I lacked motivation to change aspects of myself or to complete tasks when the motivation was centered on me changing for myself, when my motivation was to please my Dom I was suddenly able to do things I just couldn't bring myself to do. It became easy as I love to serve and to be if service.
I currently have a schedule and plan that for the most part works, I just need a Dom to enforce it.
So this is how it would work. I would share with you my google calendar and taskboard so you could see everything I am doing and all the tasks that I have scheduled in real time so you know when I have marked something as complete. Tasks require picture or video proof. Failure to accomplish tasks without a reason you find suitable would be met with punishments of your choosing as long as they do not cross established limits.
That's really it.
My kinks are extensive and always evolve. The core kinks are control, especially TPE where you have real access and ability to to make my decisions forced...humiliation, degradation, being bullied, aftercare, & attention, to name a few.
Hard Limits are:
-Nothing that can sully my work relationships. I am a people leader and people expect a certain amount of decorum from me.
-Consent must be fully understood.
-Excessive pain or gore. Don’t get me wrong, I like a bit of pain and I’ve recently discovered that I have a much higher pain tolerance than I thought I did.
-No changes to my outer appearance that I don’t agree to.
-No limiting my contact with other people.
-No women.
So if this interests you and you would like to know more or have questions, feel free to contact me.
We can start slow, help me quit smoking. We can go from there. I quit before under a Dom and definitely know what works, just ask!
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