Most importantly: you are not looking to rush me into a dynamic. You are also seeking a slow burn Maybe you’d even be satisfied with a friendship with a likeminded kinky individual. Maybe you’re lonely too. Also a bit of a misfit. Something is lacking in your life and so you’ve found yourself here.
Vanilla me: fairly independent, creative, empathetic, emotionally intelligent, into astrology 😉, a movie enthusiast, lover and consumer of art in all forms, finds happiness in playing guitar, advocate for mental health, nature lover, getting back into reading, loves cooking, nonjudgmental, fair, caring.
Top kinks (just a taste): DDlg, impact play, pet play, CNC, age play, TPE, etc. I don’t have an amazing amount of experience but do have some and have spent a decent amount of time researching and feel like I have a fairly good idea of what I want in a dynamic should we ever get to that point. I’m aware of red flags and will not hesitate to block you if you raise any.
You: Older than me. Experienced. Can hold an interesting conversation. Not pushy. No honorifics. No sexual talk without prior consent. Maybe some similar vanilla interests and if you’re at least into DDlg and not judgmental of that kink that would be lovely (bonus points if you’re a sadist as well). Mature. Caring. Prioritizes mental health. Emotionally intelligent. I’ll take life experience over book smart any day. A creative soul? Animal lovers a plus. Location doesn’t matter to me.
If you’d like to chat, please reach out with more than a “hi” but you don’t have to write a novel either 😊
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