That's pretty much it.

What, you want more?

You want to know about me as a person so you know you're not responding to the post of some total psycho who's going to steal your kidneys?

Wow, needy much?

Okay fine I guess, gosh. Imagine wanting to know things about the person whose post you're reading. Totally unheard of.

Well if you must know, hi. I'm some dude, who likes consensual sadomasochism. I'm 28, as my post title would suggest, and a grad student here in Baltimore. I've been described as a "roughneck" before in terms of my style, and it felt rather appropriate. I've got dirty blond hair that will become thick and luscious if I allow it to grow out, but right now it's cropped rather short. Maybe you'll stick around long enough to see it in its full glory. Look my hair is one of my best features I'm allowed to harp on it a bit. Similarly my eyes are a pale blue/grey. I've been told they're very pretty. I stand six even, slightly taller in the boots I usually wear, so yes you can wear heels. Dad bod, no six-pack abs here girls sorry. I do try to take care of myself, but I've never had the time or inclination to be a gym rat. If you've ever seen this meme, I do have those calves on the bottom, though I'm neither 42 nor a father of three.

Outside of kink I read a lot, mostly Sci-Fi and Fantasy though I try to sprinkle in some historical fiction and non-fiction just so I can learn a bit here and there. I go camping with a group of friends when I can, I like fishing, and yes I do play some video games. Mostly FPSes, Grand Strategy, and RPGs, though with a few harder-to-quantify games in there (Rimworld, for example).

In terms of kink, well as the title suggests I like the harsher stuff. CNC, impact/painplay, humiliation, degradation, rules, discipline, TPE, forced/controlled/denied orgasms (I like the interplay between an overstim session and then a week or a month or longer of total denial), watersports... well let's not make this a whole long list. Suffice it to say, if it's not a limit I'm probably into it.

In terms of my limits, I'm straight (no interest in dominating a guy sorry fellas), I don't like scat, and that's pretty much it. Obviously I reserve the right to change my mind on this if something ends up making me uncomfortable.

What am I looking for? Well I want you to be:

1. Single. I don't do poly or ENM. We don't have to be exclusive right away, but if you want something more than casual scenes (which I am open to), I only do exclusivity.

2. A masochist sub. I am not interested in being dominated, and I want to hit you with a belt. A bit blunt perhaps, but there it is.

3. HWP at minimum. Look I'm no Adonis, I don't expect my partners to look like Aphrodite. But physical attraction is a part of this, no point in pretending otherwise. This goes both ways of course. If you're not attracted to me, no worries, thank you for your time. I'm an adult, I can handle being told I'm not someone's type.

4. Within an hour or two of Baltimore. The closer the better. I like regular, consistent meetings. That gets hard if we're more than a few hours apart.

Alright I'm going to wrap this up because it's getting long. If you like what you read, maybe DM me.