About me: I am 32 turning 33 in a week. I am white, 270lbs (Down from 295 a month ago.), dark brown hair, big beard, and blue eyes. I'm bigger but am working on it. I love to have a good time (who doesn't though). I love to go on walks, hanging out with friends, watching movies at night, cuddle, listening to country music, reading books, and playing games. Valorant seems to be my go to atm but I also enjoy plenty of other games. Personality wise I'm a little shy at first but I'm very fun loving and a big dork once you get to know me. I am also honest, and very open to communication. I'm new to the whole BDSM scene but I've found I really enjoy being a soft dom.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for somebody to share and live life with forever. The ups, the downs, the good and the bad. I also want somebody who can appreciate my dorky behavior and reciprocates it. I want somebody who always wants to be by my side. I looking for that somebody that is my cheerleader and helps raise me up and I'll do the same in return. But I also want somebody that does whatever I say at the same time. (Obviously within limits and communication is always needed) But I'm looking for a future partner to fall in love with but also a little princess/pet to play with and use. Somebody that I can show off that also just crumbles when I call them a good little girl or my own personal toy. Ideally somebody with a strong sex drive to match mine.

Kinks include light forms of all the following, degradation (being called a slut or a good little girl), spanking, CNC (basically free use), public play, pain (mainly just your standard biting, nibbling and such), choking but I also being able to control your orgasm. I'm open to exploring these things further and see how far I'm willing to go with them but again I'm new to the scene.

Limits include everything bodily fluid related (blood, piss, scat), permanent modifications or injuries or anything like that, anything illegal obviously, and there may be others I just need to figure them out.

Short story long, I'm a down to earth guy, breaking into a new scene. I've got a lot to offer but I have struggled with a few insecurities that have stopped me from really meeting new people and showing people what I have to offer. So work with me and really get to know me and I think you might just like what you find.