I’m a curvy 5’11 sub looking for friendship that develops into something more serious, with an ideal dynamic evolving into 24/7 that goes beyond the bedroom and includes both silly chats, in-depth discussions of topics we both find important/interesting, and negotiated nsfw tasks & times that suit us both. I’m looking for someone who is at least 30 and within an hour of Atlanta preferably. I am not interested in short term connections or being your kink dispenser in chats/messages. 

Vanilla stuff: I am a massive bookworm and geek. I’m working on getting into better shape and moving my body more when I’m not at work surrounded by books and old things. I earned my PhD while I lived abroad. I love travelling, whether a day trip or a longer exploration of a far off place, and usually have at least one camera on me when I'm travelling. I also relish a good movie and discussing current events/politics (feminist, liberal) over a drink, whether that’s a nice Scotch or a very large tea. I can spend hours talking about art, in a museum or not, and will give a soliloquy on why medieval art is the best if given even half an opportunity to do so. I have a (very spoiled) dog and cat who get most of my attention outside of work and adult responsibilities at the moment. 

Kink stuff: I’m a sub with a brat streak, usually because I am in a playful mood and want to joke around. (My timing isn’t always perfect though, oops. Maybe oops?) I’m opinionated and have a strong will so I need someone who appreciates and respects that - not someone who wants to erase or completely tame it. Someone who wants to learn how to read me so that when I need to be called on it, they can do that, is ideal. This goes along with the idea that control and care are equally essential to me. Care, moreover, is something that goes both ways. I might crave control, but I know that sometimes you have to step outside of roles and we need to just be together as people, and/or drop & pick-up aspects of a dynamic depending on the ebb and flow of life. Generally in the bedroom, I enjoy bondage, orgasm control, breast play, and more. I also enjoy tasks outside of the bedroom, but that is dependent on partner and trust. Happy to discuss more specifics as we chat. 

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