I’ve been looking for a sub for a while and like high-effort posts, so here goes my try at one. 

What brings me here?

I think vanilla relationships lack some substance. The trust and intimacy that comes with being in this lifestyle are irreplaceable, and it’s something I’ve always felt like I’ve needed in my life. I think a lot of dynamics emphasize subs depending on their Doms, but I think a healthy dynamic is equal, maybe in different ways, but both people depend on each other. 

What am I looking for?

I’m looking for something long-term, and by that I mean a relationship, and later marriage, that sort of long-term. 

I’m strictly looking for something in person or someone who’s willing to relocate to Connecticut soon. 

I’d prefer to move somewhat slowly. I won’t dictate a set pace, but I don’t want to rush into things. 

What am I not looking for?

I’m not interested in 24/7 or TPE. I like having some time outside of kink and it isn’t a realistic option for me. I also like having a strong-willed sub so having complete control would just go against that want. 

Also, I’m not interested in having children. I like them, but I can’t imagine life as a father, and I would rather have the free time to travel, retire early, and just focus on ourselves as much as possible. 

Who am I looking for?

I’m looking for a brat, someone who will push my buttons and make me want to discipline them. Someone who genuinely enjoys pain, discipline, degradation/praise, and submission. 

I have physical preferences, but they’re just preferences. If you don’t fit these but still feel like you’d like to chat I’d still like to hear from you. I tend to like shorter, petite brunettes, with bonus points for glasses and tattoos. I’d also prefer someone younger than me, but I’m open to anyone 26 and below.

Who am I?

I’m a 24-year-old man from Connecticut who hates writing bios like these lol. I’m ginger with short hair, ~6’, and ~170 lbs, so a skinny/average body type. 

I’m a sadist who’s more experienced with kink than with relationships, but now I think I'm ready and wanting for both. 

Kinks

I keep an updated and a bit more extensive list on my profile but to keep things short and sweet. I’m also more than open to trying things I haven’t mentioned. 

kinks

-Impact Play

-CNC

-Giving Degradation/Praise 

-Forced Orgasms/Overstimulation 

Limits 

-Scat

-Vomit

-Gore

-Age Play/Age Regression

If any of this resonated with you I’d love to chat. Please send me a little about yourself (Age, general location, and a brief description) and what in this post caught your attention. Thanks!