Hi there!

Before the post really begins let me start with the biggest red flags/deal-breakers, I will elaborate on them later on.

1. I'm asexual, not entirely sex averse but I don't really crave sex. (Is explained more down the post)
2. I have little to no experience in BDSM so I will ask stupid questions.
3. I am overweight

About me [SFW]:

As you already read in the title I'm 24 years old and live Germany. Hobbies and interests: I've started a lot of hobbies and almost discontinued all of them but there are a few I always come back to. ~ I like to cook and bake, while not the best at either of them it's fun and also something delicious comes out of it... most of the time. ~ I also started to hike and cycle which I try to do daily which really showed me how much I like to just be outside even if it's just to view at great landscapes. ~ I also began reading again, so far only greek myths so I can't give you any recommendations beyond that but I'm always open to get some, the world of books is a big and scary one. ~ I also like games, be it video games or just boardgames. As long as it's with other people I find joy in it. ~ I love watching shows or just listening music with other people, right now I'm back on a sci-fi nostalgia trip with Stargate and eureka but I pretty much watch and listen to pretty much everything with a few exceptions.

Looks and appearance: While I personally couldn't care less how others look I know that it's important for a lot of people. But I don't really feel comfortable with sharing a picture publicly so bear with my self description. I am 1.88m tall, somewhere around 6.2 freedom units I think, with black shirt hair and brown eyes. I am overweight which I'm working on but while I have great progress it'll take a while. Personality: Personality wise I've always been shy and introverted but I'm trying to get out of my shell more. But when I warm up to people I love to make make both dark and bad dad jokes. I don't know if people pleaser is the best description for it but I always enjoyed doing things for others to make them happy which in turn made me happy.

About kinky me:

As already stated I don't have experience in having a BDSM dynamic/relationship so the following is based on a lot of self exploration.

My hard limits are: Anything that could leave scars or permanent marks, scat and watersport, illegal stuff, drug play and public things.

Kinks: Beyond that I'm pretty much open to test most things if trust is established. Here is a short list of things I'm interested in: Praise and degradation, sensory play, pet play, tasks, body worship/general worship, TPE.

The promised asexual part: As the list already implies I'm more into non sexual play which is where my asexuallity comes in. I like the dynamics in a BDSM dynamic/relationship more than sex itself. I'm not averse to it but for me it's secondary and "SFW" intimacy like cuddles are way more gratifying for me.

My ideal Domme (you?)

I don't have a strong line when it comes to age, of course you should be at least 18 (obviously) but beyond that how we get along is more important to me. I'd love it if you are located in the EU or even Germany but it's not a prerequisite as long as you are willing to suffer my German accent.

Personality wise I'd only ask for someone understanding who is able to communicate clearly, as I'm often really dense in interpersonal stuff.

What am I looking for/ideal dynamic: My ideal dynamic would also entail a relationship or a very strong friendship as I can't picture myself entering a dynamic with a stranger/acquaintance. Additionally we both should feel comfortable to talk openly and honestly with each other and listen to each other, communication is really important to me.

If what you've read resonated with you even on just a friendship level feel free to message me with your ASL, with a bit of information about you so I know with whom I'm talking. Hope you had a great start into the week!