Yes, on a BDSM forum.
Let’s throw the stereotypes out the window. Being a decent person doesn’t make you boring. Security, stability, and predictability are hot af. I can add sparkles and fireworks, what I need is a strong foundation, a rock, an anchor. And, honestly, just a kind, self-aware, emotionally mature person who knows what he wants and acts accordingly. Ok, it’s not exactly ‘just’, but I don’t believe it’s too much to ask either. If only because I can offer those same qualities in return.
I’m looking for a dominant-type man, around my age (I mean it), single (I really mean it), and open to taking things slow. I’m not looking for a partner for online play, sexting, exchanging NSFW pics or fantasies, etc. Nor am I looking to give up control over any aspect of my life to a random person I’ve met on the internet. No judgement whatsoever, it’s just not fun for me without an emotional connection. I do prefer to exchange SFW pictures right away, but only to save us both some time, because let’s not pretend that physical attraction doesn’t matter. But overall I just want things to progress naturally.
As for the ‘online’ part, the reason for that is quite simple — I live in the middle of nowhere, and while meeting in person is not entirely improbable, it won’t happen anytime soon.
And one last thing, I actually have a favor to ask. If you decide to message me, please make it count. I understand that it’s hard for men out here, that the reply rate is low, and it can feel frustrating. But one-liners and copy-paste give me nothing to respond to. And really, if you’re not interested enough to spend 10 minutes writing a personal message, just don’t do it — I’m not the right person for you, and that’s ok.
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