I've realized over time how attractive I find degradation and objectification in the context of a relationship. My ideal relationship would be vanilla during hainess hours and depraved after 5pm. I'm a white collar professional and wouldn't want to give that up/force my partner to give it up, but my ideal partner would be someone sees sub space as a stress release. I don't think submission needs to just be given away and think it's worth more if it's earned over time. As we build trust, giving me more control would be really exciting. It could involve things as mundane as the shoes you're wearing to as involved as the sex acts you perform with me (or others)

In the long run I have fantasies of turning my partner into my perfect trophy wife (hopefully not in a controlling way but in a fun sexy way). I've always had a fantasy of paying for my partners boobs, for example. I've always been curious about a CNC and TPE dynamic but obviously that wouldn't come right away.

I'm actually not into anything too crazy in the bedroom but am definitely a pleasure Dom. I like being in control and giving lots of orgasms, but also feel like sometimes I just want you and need to use you. I've found I'm most compatible with subby doll types who enjoy a bit of objectification and degradation, along with praise and rewards to go with it. With the right partner I'm extremely loyal and giving.

Outside of kink: stable homeowner with a white collar job in San Francisco. 6'2", keep fit. Olive skin, dark hair. D&D free. Wine lover and trying California wines is a favorite hobby. Also into the gym, and play around with making electronic music on the side. Open to travel for dating as M-F I'm pretty busy and don't mind flying weekends, but local is obviously preferred If you're interested send a pic and I'll return the favor 😉