• Love the mind and the body will follow? Absolutely true but that's not what I was thinking of...
• Heal the mind and the body will follow? True again but not what I was looking for...
• FUCK the mind and the body will follow! Ahhh...that's the good stuff!

I love words and the power they can have. The kind of person I'm looking for loves words too and likes to communicate and create with them. Like I said above, you want me to fuck your mind and your body will gladly follow. If the mental aspect of kink is very important to you, then the rest might be too:

I can't expect your submission unless you're willing to meet me halfway. This idea of it's "my way or the highway" might be good for an established dynamic but there's just no way for me to enjoy one like that without time getting to know each other. Be prepared to put in considerable time and effort to make a dynamic work.

I'm looking for a sub who sees themselves thriving with a more patient dom. I love to work on goals and help a sub work on things that they want to improve. At the same time, I stress the idea of changing what is possible and accepting the rest. I love beauty and femininity as well.

My kinks are pretty broad but won't include any scat, needles, excessive or unnecessary pain. I tend to see rewards as being far more effective at encouraging behaviour I like but I won't hesitate to correct if I feel your behaviour is not appropriate. I keep it safe, sane, and consensual at all times no matter what kinks you have or share with me. I'm also a big believer in never harming your personal life, public image, or privacy.

I'm open to all experience levels with the caveat that you are prepared to be a good communicator.

A bit about me: working professional. Tall. Brown hair and blue eyes. Decent shape. Happy to share a photo.

I'm in Eastern Time but open to wherever if there's a spark.