posting again (not deleting the old post) due to a location change; will be in Texas for the next few years at least

About me: I'm just a woman (6ft2, Black, curvy with a little bit of muscle and works full time) who enjoys reading, listening to music, going to the gym, spending time with my daughter and two cats, and surprisingly enough learning new things and discovering interesting hobbies on TikTok 😆 If coffee and books are involved, there's a high chance I'll be there. I believe in God and I read my Bibe, but I also believe in spirituality. A lil bit Good Girl and a lil bit of a Brat💜

About you: A man who is unapologetically himself and in tune with his masculinity who will help me flourish and thrive (not to be confused with helping me find) into my femininity and work together to build something absolutely, uniquely, genuinely, us.

There’s something about submission that appeals to me deep down: the sense of pride in hearing “Good Girl” because I’ve completed a task to their satisfaction as well as serving them in a way that brings them happiness and pleasure. It’s like, a nice warm feeling that sweeps over me, knowing that my person is happy with me and who I am becoming, both on my own and for them. The feeling of trust and being safe enough to be vulnerable and open to be myself (in both my Good Girl and sometimes Bratty ways). On the flip side, knowing that those playful moments where I might act out a little can be met with a look and a certain tone when I’m reminded of who I belong to and that I need to behave…is an indescribable feeling.

Kinks I'm interested in: bondage/restraints, impact, I love men with deeper voices. Experimenting with orgasm control, primal/prey. A little bit of CNC. Open to experimenting with others, after a discussion.

Hard limits: any race play; anything with bodily fluids; anything illegal; nothing physical that can impact how I do my job (to include leaving visible marks); sharing with others (I’m monogamous, and would prefer my partner to be the same); open and obvious power exchange in public/in front of family and friends (but I would LOVE to explore some subtle power exchange things).