Hi everyone! I've had good luck in the past finding ongoing casual dynamics here, so I'm reaching out in case anyone else is looking for the same things I am! I've been into kink for a couple decades now (technically switch, but so sub leaning it's barely worth mentioning!). I've realized that kink is essential to me in sexual and romantic relationships. I'd really like to find someone to have a relationship that goes beyond kink with, but I also want kink to be a very significant part of our everyday relationship. I like degradation, impact and other pain play, service, rope, and 24/7 control of various elements of my life (one dom controlled my wardrobe, another my bedtime . . . it depends on the dynamic, but I like feeling a small level of control over me all the time, when that's something a partner is into). Outside of kink, I'm a professional with two wonderful dogs. I enjoy nerdy stuff like dnd, adventures outside, art and music, and travel. I like to stay active, even if that just means a walk with my dogs after work. Happy to share more details about kinks and limits if we connect. I'm 5'1 and plus-size-but-proportional--I think I'm cute, but if slightly heavier isn't your thing, I'm probably not the right person for you.
I like to talk for at least a few days and meet up in person at least a couple of times before diving into anything intense or serious. I'm happy to send pics without my face in them up front.
Send me a chat with your age and gender identity (I'm attracted to all of them)! I do my best to reply to messages, but sometimes a lot come in very quickly. I usually won't respond if you don't share the age and gender thing as requested.
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