After being in multiple relationships with men who were always dominant in bed and never attentive to my needs, I’ve developed a deep interest in Femdom. Now, I find it difficult to return to a more conventional relationship dynamic.

I’m looking for a man who’ll always prioritize my pleasure. A man who’ll sneak into the bathroom during work hours just to send me a picture of his underwear full of precum, showing me I’m on his mind. That’s my ideal type. Someone who puts my pleasure first because they love pleasing me so much without expecting anything in return.

I’m also really into Denial right now. I want to deprive you of porn so you know I’m your only source of release. Too much exposure to porn messes with your brain, and I believe Denial builds anticipation, making even the simplest interaction feel like ecstasy.

I love being in control: giving JOI, telling you how to stroke it, how to play with your foreskin, and setting tasks and rules for you to follow daily. This isn’t occasional, it’s an everyday thing for me.

I’m not interested in guys who are just trying to get something in return. I’ve always dealt with men who pretend to be submissive but rush through tasks and avoid anything challenging, just to satisfy themselves. I'm done dealing with that. I want someone genuinely obsessed with pleasing me in ways my exes never did. I want your pleasure to come entirety from mine.

About me: I’m a white Brazilian who’s really into fitness. I’ve been working out since I was 16, so I have a well-toned figure. I’m 5'7" with long brown hair. I stay busy with work, gym, and running errands with my roommates, so I’m looking to build a long-term connection with someone who will make my day better by discussing sexual experiences and sending things they know will turn me on.

I’m asking for a picture upfront. This isn’t a monetary transaction, so attraction is key for me.