About Me

Hi, I'm Zac, a 35 YO Dom living in North Carolina. I’m originally from Southern Cali and have lived in Oregon and NYC as well. I am seeking new connections and experiences, both locally and online. My primary goal is to find someone who is interested in participating in BDSM activities and events with me. Someone who is also looking for companionship before anything else, that person they can talk to throughout the day and share their honest thoughts and feelings.

My Interests

Professionally, I make a living as a Chef, which I absolutely love. Cooking isn't just my job; it's a major hobby that brings me joy and satisfaction. My current goal is to start a ramen food truck next August. Outside the kitchen, I'm a big nerd with a deep love for all things STEM, video games, sci-fi, and fantasy. I love traveling and experiencing new places. Recently, I've been getting into gardening, programming, game development, and 3D art & animation.

BDSM

As a Dom, my journey has been about learning and growing, both for myself and for those I connect with. I try to internalize a quote I read that resonated with me: “There is a feeling of accomplishment knowing I have helped someone climb higher and go further than they could have gone alone.” Whether it's shaping someone into their best self or guiding them to near nirvana through orgasm, this is the core of why I enjoy being a Dom.

What I'm Looking For

A partner who wants to explore what BDSM is for them too and continuing my journey as a Dom. In my opinion being a Dom is a continual journey of improvement, and I am hopeful to find someone who shares this mindset. I want to find someone who is my equal in mind, it makes it that much better when you submit. Additionally, I’m looking for someone willing to attend munches, events, and parties with me. The cherry on top would be someone who has a high sex drive and libido like mine.

I am always interested in meeting new people within the BDSM/kink community, whether it leads to a dynamic, a deeper relationship, or simply a friendship or acquaintance. The potential for a connection and learning something new is exciting. I value clear communication, mutual respect, honesty, and respecting boundaries in all interactions.

You Should Reach Out to Me If You Are Searching For:

1. Mutual Respect: Just because it is a power dynamic doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be respect for both roles. We’re all human.
2. Respect for Boundaries: Someone respectful of boundaries and not afraid to set their own.
3. A Safe and Judgment-Free Space: A place to express yourself how you need. And to explore the kinks and taboos you may be afraid or cautious of.
4. Leadership: A leader for whatever aspect of your life that you feel you need it. The beauty of BDSM is that every dynamic is different based on the needs of the individuals.
5. Open Communication: Someone who values honest, open dialogue to ensure all everyone feels heard, validated and respected.
6. Exploration and Growth: A partner who encourages personal growth and experimentation in a safe, sane, and consensual manner.

I highlight these specifically because this is about having fun, pleasure and fulfillment. And if all parties involved in the fun keep these things in mind they will be safe from any real physical, emotional and psychological harm. The list may grow or adapt over time.

You may notice a missing kink section and this is intentional. While it is a part of a BDSM dynamic I think it is best left to discover in conversation and getting to know one another. It’s not what this is about really, exploring kinks and sexual curiosities is the dessert after doing the work and eating your veggies.

If you're interested in connecting, feel free to reach out. Let's see where things lead. If you’re the type that struggles to find the words for a first message, simply a hi will do, or tell me about a hobby you have and why you enjoy it or maybe what lead you to seek a submissive role.

SFW: https://ibb.co/dPtnwm2