Hello everyone! Hope you’re doing great :)

First and foremost, this is going to be a long post (I tend to ramble a bit) and English is not my first language, so please bear with me! It is my first time writing here and I’ve been on Reddit for about 3 years now, but I lost my old account.

Important: I’m looking for a real connection (online first, IRL if we connect) and a long-term relationship, so if that’s not what you’re seeking, you can stop reading. I know that getting to know someone may take some time and I don’t like to rush things, but if we click and find that we share similar interests, that would be lovely :)

About me:

SFW

I’m a 22 year old college student, living in Spain and working as a waitress. I have medium brown slightly wavy hair, brown eyes, I’m usually tanned (although right now I’m paler than usual). I’m 162cm (5’3) and skinny, small tits and ass, so I’ve been called petite before.

I’m studying English philology and some German, I enjoy literature, history, etymology, mythology and linguistics (Yup, I’m kind of a nerd). Future teacher (crossed-fingers). Love animals, especially dogs. I love learning about new cultures, trying new food and exploring different countries (traveller here). I like to meet new people although I’d consider myself introverted and shy at first when it comes to extroverted people, but when I get to know someone and we get along well, I’m quite talkative. On the other hand, when I’m with introverts I let out my extroverted side (I guess that would make me an ambivert?) I have a dark and sarcastic sense of humour (with the correct people). I’m a down-to-earth person, empathetic, curious, willing to learn new things, I’m a good listener and most of the time act as my friends’ personal psychologist. I tend to overthink and I have a bit of anxiety so that makes me insecure. Sometimes I struggle to make decisions on simple matters but I know clearly what I want and what I don’t want in my life (whether it be love, friendships, etc.).

Music is one of my passions, I could spend the whole day with my earphones on playing different music. My favourite genre is rock but my playlist is a mix of everything. I’m a musician in my free time, I play saxophone and currently learning piano on my own. I learnt some guitar but it was years ago so I’m beyond doubt rusty. I enjoy walking through nature, sightseeing around the city or simply watching a sunset. I like to read books (busy at the moment so I’d like to get back into it this summer) and watching films/TV series of all kinds (definitely a nerd).

I like to hang out with my friends and go partying, I drink alcohol occasionally on the weekends or special occasions, I don’t smoke (I rarely vape when partying but I haven’t done it in over a year, so yep) but I’m an indoor person too, so I really appreciate a cosy evening with a cup of coffee and a good book/film/playing board games to recharge my social battery. In my daily life I like to dress comfortably and I generally don’t wear make-up but I love getting ready to go out or to go to work so I enjoy being all dressed up and putting on make-up.

NSFW (finally)

As the title says, I’m a virgin (personal choice, I just haven’t met the right person yet) but that doesn’t mean I’m innocent (actually I have a really dirty mind). I like to have a good conversation and getting to know someone and that’s when I start to feel attraction, so I’d say I’m demisexual, but physical attraction is important too so I don’t mind exchanging SFW pics after a while if we click.

What I am looking for:

I’m definitely stubborn and independent, so I’m not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. Monogamous (I truly value loyalty). I like to tease people a lot when I trust them (and if they’re okay with that) and I love the banter and back and forth, so I’ve been called a brat before (even by my friends) and I identify as one. Nevertheless, I know I’m a submissive since I’m a caring and obliging person and perhaps a bit of a people pleaser, so I like to see people happy and my partner pleased. Still, I’d like someone caring but with a rough side and a firm hand when it comes to sex (to be honest, that combination both turns me on and melts my heart) who guides me and puts me in my place. I’m used to have to control everything around me and I sometimes get overwhelmed with daily basic things (work, studies, family/personal problems), so I crave to release control to someone I know I can trust, who provides support and makes the decisions, allowing me to let go at least for a while. I find the power exchange thrilling, but I don’t like to focus it all on sex/kink, I want a respectful relationship where both of us are equals no matter our roles in bed. 

Please be 18, preferably between 20/30 but I don’t mind if you’re slightly older.

Experience: I have little/no experience. I just kissed twice and nothing further than superficial touches. I had a 3 month online dynamic with a “dom” who ended up not respecting my boundaries and ghosting me when I needed him the most during a personal problem. In real life, I’ve never had a boyfriend but deep down I’m a hopeless romantic.

Kinks: Praise, slight verbal degradation, voice kink (if you have a deep voice, I’m your girl), dirty talk, orgasm control/edging, hair pulling, bondage/ropes (never tried it, but the idea of my partner tying me up and being at his mercy sounds exciting), spanking and impact play (same as the previous one), slight choking (love to have a guy’s hand around my neck even if it is just holding it), funishments vs punishments (previously discussed). I have a Daddy kink but I’m not really into DDlg (I like to call my partner Daddy because it feels both sweet and hot and I love the caring part, but nothing more, at least for now. I’m not a little even though I can be playfully childish sometimes). Love male hands, so if you have nice hands, that’s a plus.

These are the ones that come to mind now, but as I said above, I’m willing to try and discover new things :)

Limits: Hardcore stuff, slavery, anything illegal, age regression, slapping in the face

Preferences: I have a thing for accents, especially British. I like men who are taller than me.
If we share some interest/hobbies that would be nice but I also love to discover new things so maybe you can introduce me to some. But as I said, these are just preferences and obviously not essential :)

Musts: Aftercare (both parties), safe words, limits, consent, respect and communication. And the most important, as the saying goes: Good sense of humour, dirty mind and beautiful heart. Deadly combination :)

If you have reached this point (thanks for coming to my TED talk) and some of the things I’ve mentioned above resonate with you, please don’t hesitate to send me a message, I’d like to know more about you. Thanks again for the patience and for your time, have a wonderful day :)