First thing’s first: I’m super cute. No, really, I am. I’m 5’4”, African American, black hair, dark brown eyes, & have a perfectly soft body for cuddling (not plus sized but not small either - thighs & ass for days). Sarcastic, silly, smiley, energetic…a whole ray of sunshine. You’ll regularly be torn between laughing with me and wanting to spank my ass. Chances are high that you’ll do both, hopefully regularly. Under all that fluff is a whole lot of deviance, too.

I’m rather experienced with kink. I spent all of my 20’s figuring out what makes me melt at parties, in classes, and in almost every type of power dynamic. D/s is my favorite & what I’m looking for now – with optional ddlg if it’s your thing. Kink-wise, my interests are broad. I’ll be here all day if I list them all so here’s the greatest hits: impact, restraint, objectification, toys, cnc, protocol, & exhibitionism. Ideally, you’re fairly experienced, too. And because the internet tends to make people bold: hard pass on race play. Yuck.

I’m in an open marriage and I’m most interested in meeting someone who’s also partnered but has time for something consistent & connected. I’m looking for all the normal parts of dating PLUS whatever debauchery we think up so ideally, we’ll cultivate something equal parts romantic, playful, and perverse. I think we can only do that with proximity and time, so I’m only interested in people who live in the bay area.

Outside of kink, I have lots of random interests & big geek energy. I play games (board & video), watch anime, visit museums, & read sci fi. I also love the outdoors and hike regularly. My last trip to a national park was just last month! I’m a huge foodie, art enthusiast, & a serial hobbyist. My spotify playlist is just as eclectic.

I’m open-minded and interested in all types of people so I don’t have too many preferences beyond the ones I’ve sprinkled throughout this super long post but there’s one more thing: I hope you’re somewhere between your 30’s and 50’s.

If I sound interesting and you think you might be a good fit, say hi! Maybe tell me about a song you have on repeat so I know you’ve read this whole wall of text.