Hi there, I'm a big gentle teddybear daddy dom type. My natural state is super affectionate, there's nothing I love more than physical touch. I'm currently based in the Gold Coast, QLD. I don't enjoy age regression, and I don't even need to have a "DDLG or CGL" relationship - it's just a good description of who I am. I'm the kind of guy that walks on the side of the road with the cars so that I get hit instead of you. I love to hold hands, snuggle, shower together, brush your hair etc.
I'm 6'1 and a fairly big guy but working on it and making respectable progress. I don't smoke or drink and while neither are a deal breaker for me, it'd be a plus if you didn't. My idea of fun when it comes to going out is going to the movies, restaurants, exploring & fishing etc. I'd say overall I'm a pretty basic guy, I didn't grow up with a lot of money and I lead a pretty simple life, I'm not into partying and clubs etc.
I'd describe myself as a soft dom with hard kinks. I'm very much into all those caregiving and nurturing aspects, but I have interest in exploring discrete public play, rope play, pet play, wax/candle play, edging & denial, forced orgasms and I'm sure many more. I'd love to build a relationship strong enough to comfortably explore all of those avenues. I'm not sure if it's because opposites attract but I am very attracted to petite/slim/pocket rocket types physically. I'd love to have a girl that wouldn't mind playing with other girls on occasion (Who wouldn't) but it's not essential.
I have a degree and work full-time, and I'm looking forward to building a career. Long term I see myself eventually trying to get out of the big cities and getting a piece of land, maybe trying my hand at a little bit of homesteading, having somewhere to have friends over gathered around a fire. That's the dream.
I play video games for fun in my spare time and will give most a shot but also spend the majority of my time playing the same handful. (League, OSRS, Diablo etc) I'm keen to spend more time doing other things in my spare time but it's always been a comfort of mine.
I'd much rather not talk about his sort of stuff all together, because it only really upsets people and goes in circles - but for your own information before you reach out you may want to know certain things beforehand:
- I'm not really pro trans but I'm not anti human. What a consenting adult does I don't think should be my business but I have real concerns when it comes to children and sports.
- I'm really not a fan of what people call the political left (But I hate the terms left and right wing) - I wish we could just independently form opinions on topics instead of the shitty group think that happens in the current environment.
- I think masculinity and femininity are super important and I hate buzz words like toxic masculinity etc. I do listen to people like Joe Rogan, Jordan Peterson etc though I wouldn't say they're idols or anything.
- I eat a lot of meat (and think it's healthy to do so) so unless you're a vegan with a primal/prey kink you may want to reconsider.
Please feel free to reach out if any of this sparks an interest. Can't wait to hear from you! P.S Remember to drink plenty of water. :)
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