You always hear about what a gift submission is, and I don’t disagree. There’s nothing I cherish more than an obedient little girl fueled by my praise. Someone that can make me feel primal, like a man, using her feminine energy. But you never hear about the gift of dominance. All the love and care that goes into taking a broken little girl and molding her into something beautiful again. The structure and discipline to give you rules and detailed tasks, so that you can develop healthy habits. The safety and security of having someone watch over you. Making sure you’re taking care of yourself. To be there for you when your anxiety is ramping up and telling you lies. To be there for you to pull you back from the depths of a depressive episode. When you constantly feel like the weight of the world is crushing down on you, Daddy will be there to keep you afloat.

I’ve been a daddy dom for over a decade and in that time I’ve learned a lot about myself. And that is I’m most drawn towards girls that are a little emotionally fucked up. The more anxious, depressed, emotionally needy a little girl is, the more it brings out my daddy side. What might be red flags for some, are green flags for me. It only makes me want to baby you and take care of you that much more. I want to heal your soul with my daddy hands. I want to be there when you’re crying and you don’t know why. I want to hold you and make you feel safe. I want you exactly how you are. I’m very patient and very calm. I’ll be here to slow those racing thoughts. I want to build you up as my own. Shape you into the girl I love and desire. I want someone that will grow under my care and wisdom, who will make me proud. Someone who will give me their all because they know it’s what’s best for them. We’ll get you on a path to healing with positive self care. Because you’re mine now. You’re safe in daddy’s world.

But that’s my daddy side. My dom side, however, is not as loving or caring. It is just as hungry for attention as my daddy side. For every yin there is a yang. For as loving and bright as my daddy side is, my dom side is equally dark and twisted. This is the side of me that wants to see you cry from my sadistic abuse. I want to make you feel vulnerable as I strip away your control. I want to make you feel fear, excitement, embarrassed, shame… alive. There’s not anything you wouldn’t do for me under the right amount of manipulation and gaslighting. I want to say blackmail, but that’s irrelevant. You’ll do anything to earn my praise and hear me say those two little addicting words “Good girl.” I’m going to train you to be my perfect little slut. Much the same way you’d train a dog. Through repetitive tasks and positive reinforcement. I will push you and break you until you’re where I need you to be, emotionally dependent and willing to do anything for me. There’s safety in your submission. My pleasure is what makes you happy, whole. The way rape victims get conditioned to crave abuse is what I’m going to do to you.

Those are my two sides constantly at war with each other and that’s why I’m looking for a girl to bring balance to me. I greatly emphasize the importance of open communication, after care, and self care. Because no matter how fucked up our play time can get, you will always be daddy’s little girl that I cherish and give my attention and affection to. Being a daddy is bear and dear to my heart. No matter what, being your daddy is always my top priority.

Now my perfect little girl is anything but. But to me she’s my everything. I have a few types I’ve noticed over the years and here’s a loose description of what I’m looking for. I value someone that communicates well. Has a thirst for knowledge. I LOVE questions. Ask me anything! Everyone has that special thing about them that makes them beautiful, what’s yours? I love a girl with ambition and goals. Working towards a degree or career. I don’t care about experience. I’ll train you exactly how I want you. All I ask is that you should have an open, curious mind. Eager to experience life again. I love a girl that is under appreciated and knows what it’s like to feel lonely, even when you have a partner. Just as I know that all too well myself. This will only be online. I have an odd schedule, so time zones and location don’t matter to me.

Please please please reach out to me if you have any questions, comments, concerns. Tell me what a good girl does. Tell me what brought you here tonight. Tell me what makes you, you! Yes, you! Even if you’re shy.