Hi hi! I'm a 35F 6'1" switch with 38Ds looking for my primary sub. I am polyamorous with existing relationships but would place a lot of importance on this for the right person. We don't have to meet up right away, but I am looking for a long-term IRL sub.
I don't just have a super sadistic side and care more about obedience than inflicting pain, but I'm happy to make sure that you get to live out whatever kinks you have fully.
I want someone intellectual and interesting, as, even though I would own you, I would cherish you and want to connect with you deeply. I like TPE/CNC-type dynamics, but only want to be on the controlling end if I can ensure that you feel the trust and care that I will use that power responsibly. I know some less experienced subs find that less exciting (including myself back in the day), but it's what's ideal for that kind of arrangement. I want you to have everything you need not just emotionally but materially to both be happy and to be the best sub you can be.
A lot of what I would expect out of you would be fun and sweet too, like playing video games together or getting snuggly on the couch and watching something. I want a sub, but in some ways, I want a dependable little spoon even more. It'll be especially good after we get done with an intense scene. I want someone who will be very sweet and even a bit needy with me, who, even if I expect submission and obedience out of, I will mostly treat sweetly in kind. (Mostly!)
Petite & short is a huge plus. Prefer folks with more of a geeky aesthetic too (as I have myself).
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