About vanilla me: I’m a pretty average guy. I live out in the country of Midwest Ohio, about 15 min from the Indiana line. Solid career, side business, house, motorcycle, and a ham of a pitbull. No kids (and pretty sure I don’t want any) and never married. I’ve spent the last few years self-removed from the dating market to build the life I want to live and well, I think its probably time to put myself back out there. I’m monogamous and not looking to join any couples or be someone’s side piece. I’m an atheist, and in the middle of the political spectrum. Pretty introverted as my career has me in a pretty extroverted state during the week, so in my off time I like to hang around the house and get things done there, take the pitbull on a hike, play some computer games, or read a book in my ever expanding library. I’m on somewhat of a physical and mental health kick and continuing to better myself.

About kinky me: I’m a switch. I know this part scares a lot of people away but mostly with a partner I prefer to Dom (soft) but damn there’s some times that I would enjoy being submissive. I’ve been in the kink scene for 15 years and there’s no way that “Fucking in the missionary position for purpose of procreation” could be something that I could live with, so I’m here, on reddit, seeking someone. In terms of kink I’m super open. I enjoy a ton of stuff and often feel like I won’t find anyone to check the majority of boxes. I haven't been to munches in a long time as the local scene, that was already pretty non-existent, has dried up, thanks partially to the plague, and there isn’t anything around here for at least an hour drive.

Soft Dom likes: Bondage, DDLG, spanking, free use, a plethora of toys, light humiliation, edging, begging, chastity, and more.

Sub Likes: Pegging, bondage, light humiliation, chastity, oral service, free use, and more.

If you have a particular kink you would like to discuss I’m an open book, but hard limits are blood, scat, animals, and vomit. No shame to those that are into it but they just aren’t for me.
Kinklist: https://imgur.com/a/tRyh6lP

What I’m looking for: A mental and physical connection above all else. I don’t believe in “The one” as relationships grow and bring people together. I would prefer that you had your ducks at least in the same yard. Someone kinky and wanting to explore all things in and out of the bedroom that life has to offer. I don’t expect anyone to have similar hobbies and would like it if you had your own that you were passionate about and we could discuss. Someone that can hold part of a conversation as I’m tired of receiving “LOL” as a text with nothing to go off of and unwilling to talk about yourself. Be willing to work together to build what we want and communicative. Loyalty is another big one for me as well, I’ve been burned, a lot, but went through and got over those instances. Be willing to swap pictures somewhat early as I do believe physical attraction is important but not the end all. In a summary I’m looking for my team mate who wants to build and grow together. I’m flexible on an age range but I would prefer someone 26-36 as I feel life experiences would be somewhat similar.
If this peaks your interest I’d love to chat and get to know each other. If not I appreciate you taking the time to give this a read and wish you well on your journey also.