hi! I'm redhook! I'm lesbian (only F4F, trans friendly!), 19, and here are some rapid fire things about me: I like to read and write fanfiction (no, it's not all self-indulgent nsfw and self-inserts), geometry dash (very casually), listen to music (particularly rock, EDM, and alternative), I love cats, science, and also a good debate :)

I consider myself aromantic, so if you're looking for something romantic. but I am looking for an affectionate friendship :) just, with a lot of kink ofc lol. please also be near my age! I'm flexible on this, though.

I'm looking for someone who can indulge me with my orgasm denial kink. I can explain it more in detail in chat, but the gist of it is that I'm looking for a caretaking (not necessarily ageplay but I'm so down for some of those dynamics if you'd like it) type dynamic with denial being the "method" of caretaking, if you will. such that being denied is my "proper" and "perfect" and "healthy" state, and that you're taking care of me by denying me. someone who keeps me wet and throbbing not because it amuses them, but because it's for my own good.

I'm looking for someone who doesn't consider themselves "sadistic" in the traditional sense. I'm not too much of a masochist and straight insults and degradation aren't my thing. I prefer praise that is condescending to the point of babying me. I enjoy pointed, humiliating praise and comments that are at first glance kind. I love manipulation and mindfuckery, and basically the whole objective is just turning my brain into mush with almost hysterical desperation and, in a sense, "brainwashing", without even lifting a finger to hurt me or insult me. I love fake sympathy and gentle, but firm domination.

if you can be saccharine-sweet, hold extremely firm against my begs to cum, make me more desperate than I can imagine, and be willing to fuck with my mind, that would be the perfect combination.

here is a list of my kinks: orgasm denial/ruined orgasms, dacryphilia, intelligence loss, petnames, condescending praise, objectification, begging, desperation, dripping/wetness, manipulation/lying, edging, teasing, caretaking, ageplay, babying, somnophilia, begging

my limits are: painplay, toilet play, sending or receiving images (soft limit, I'm willing to verify though!), cruel dirty talk/degradation, foodplay, and non-sexual dominance

if you're interested, message me! please be detailed and show me that you're interested.