30F single, pansexual submissive switch, Seattle WA, seeking a single straight, bi, or pan Dom male for LTR, either local or LD to IRL.

I am currently located in WA. I am looking for someone who wants to have a long term relationship and is willing to navigate the issues that will come with that. I am trying at times. I do my best to understand my short comings and work to fix or at least mitigate them. There are some I can't get over however like my need for affection and attention. I need a lot but I promise to give just as much back. I am willing to throw my whole self into someone, but I want to know I'm not just something you'll get bored of. Please be kind and know that I mean it, I want long term. We can always talk about the details of exclusive or not but I want someone who wants to have this go somewhere, even if it isn't quickly because I am in a place in my life that quickly probably isn't the best anyway. I'm looking for someone who is confident but doesn't always have to be, someone willing to back me up but sometimes needs their own back up, I want someone who is willing to try but is too tired some days and is willing to tell me they are. Basically I want to be someone's player 2. I want to be submissive and used in the bedroom but your best friend outside of it. I want to adore you, obsess over you, love you in the way you need. I want us to be both as happy and supported as we can be on this blue dot. I'm a slut, but I'm a slut who wants someone to get in trouble with. I wanna be your alibi haha, your bed warmer, your smile when you aren't okay. I want to count on you and you to know you can back. We will both be human it won't always be perfect but I want someone who wants all of me, and I will want all of you. I want someone who wants to hear my thoughts, I have so many and I've been so lonely, I just want someone who wants to go over the applications of AI in video games with me for example. I wanna know for sure you want me and that you want to hear me. I'll do a lot to earn it.

I think a lot, talk a lot, talk too loud. I love video games, movies, and documentaries (more than a passing interest in all these, I like to talk about them in depth). Music is something I love to experience live. I like to go out and dance, playing pool is my favorite. But I also like a nice time in with cuddles, fucking, a movie, and food. I am not new to bdsm. I want to flirt all the time, I want to work to make the "cupcake" stage stay. I want to learn you and care about the 3D person. You aren't an NPC and neither am I. I have lots of kinks and very few limits, I like to work with my dom/partner to get as close to perfect as I can. I want us both to crave each other, get that feeling in your stomach when we see a message. I need a best friend, and a lover. I wanna go to orgies together, weird clubs, fuck other women together. The idea of knowing I'm so completely wanted that no one else is a threat is my goal. I want to work with someone to have a good solid base in life that we can then use to help other people and have as much crazy fun as we can together.

I'm kinky, my career is in STEM, I'm weird. I'm a caring person, I'm very liberal in my thinking and very open. Charity is important to me, and I am looking for a caring open minded person.

I will not submit to you in th first 2 days. Everytime I ever have it's always not worked out. Earn my trust and show me you care about me, the person, as much as you care about the slut. Please. I'm begging. I'm not fooling around. If you are too busy for a relationship don't tell me to submit to you and then make me a none priority.

No 24/7 TPE - I want to have a vanilla life where I have a career, I want us to be constantly flirting and playing with our dynamic, but you don't own my vanilla life 24/7 and in all ways. I'm not looking to be financially taken care of, I want us to be partners.

My limits are permanent damage, blood, shit, real incest, and kids (for me this includes age regression, no judgment for anyone though). Piss and animals are a soft limit, if you count bad dragon and primal play as I enjoy those aspects.

I am not looking for a Dom who is already in a committed relationship. I was not a priority in my last major relationship and I need that now.

I am not new to this. I don't need training to be a good slut, but I want to be trained to be your good slut.

Check out my profile for what I look like but I'm willing to verify. If you really have read this and care send me a pic and your ASL. Idc where you are if you wanna make it work with me.

I am sure there is more I should say but I can't think of it now. Idk I've just tried the Tinder/Bumble shit and it just doesn't seem to work. I'm a passionate person who wants passion back in all ways. I'll support you in your passions.

Send me a message. 💚

P.S. I can't have children but I'd be willing to foster. I don't have time for sweet secret love. I want straight forward declarations.

I hope you have a good day. 💚