Hi,
I’m looking for chemistry, a spark I can’t explain but I recognize when I see. Therefore this whole post will be sort of random…
First of all: I’m looking for someone who doesn’t need me, just appreciates my company. Someone who knows what they are looking for and are willing to walk away if we’re not a right match.
Someone who expects dedication.
Other than that, I’d like to discuss with people with high emotional intelligence, who want to figure out how I work, and are willing to let me see how they work.
This should be an exploration of the thought patterns and emotions that guide us, to see if our wounds match, so to speak 🙂
Important note: my attachment style is anxious-preoccupied; I’m clingy and I react badly to perceived abandonment (I’m working on it but I want to be upfront). I’m looking for someone who can handle that, and ideally can soothe me and not take it personally.
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