Funny, open minded, energetic and eager to please - that's me in a nutshell. I was in a very long, very loveless marriage where sex was routine at best, and I was forced to suppress my sexuality and never mention anything I enjoyed.

Now I'm a few years past my divorce, and have done the emotional work. I'm not into one night stands, as I prefer to learn about my partner and how to push their buttons (in a good way, though!). I feel like I lean pretty heavily on the soft dom side, but I've been wanting to explore different things. I have few hard boundaries, and listing "edging you until you can barely speak" doesn't go well on a Bumble profile I'd imagine.

My catch 22 is - everyone is looking for someone with experience (on this sub), but I need experience to gain experience so it ends up being this cycle Im not sure how to get into.

I'm 37, educated, charismatic, and kind. I can carry on a conversation on a litany of topics, but prefer not to be the only one doing the lifting there. Im a great communicator, and love a good morning text as well as hearing you vent about your day. I have a few talents, a few hobbies, and a passion for learning - and consider myself a well rounded individual. I'm also recently tested, sterile, and GGG.

I'm looking for someone who may be very knowledgeable in kink and/or someone who is happy to show me the ropes (pun intended). If things turn into a relationship that's great, but not necessary and certainly not something to be forced. Live found dating in your late 30s is like the 2nd or 3rd level of Hell, and I'd love to find someone who could use some positive vibes and physical attention - as well as great conversation and friendship - to just have fun and explore with.

If any of this piques your interest, reach out - I'd love to chat with you and get to know you :)