Hey, all! Okay, first things first, I'm looking for a relationship. Not a purely sexual dynamic. I'm hoping to meet somebody I can share my life with, all the joys and challenges associated with that. I am in Seattle, Washington, USA, though I would prefer to keep things online for the time being as I hope to move within the next year. I have a partially formed plan as to where I want to move already, but it can definitely change. I'm also completely okay with somewhat of an age gap, though the oldest I'd date is 28-30 depending on what you're like. Time differences can be really annoying, but I really hope we can make it work, even if we need to have more of an indirect correspondence than a live conversation for now. I generally work Sunday-Thursday from 4:30 or 5:00pm to midnight, so my schedule is weird to say the least.
Anywhooo... so, who am I?
I'm 22, 6'2", have been working on my weight for a long time and have actually made progress in recent months. Maybe you could be my workout buddy as well as my partner? I'm also a very avid outdoorsman. There's honestly nothing that makes me feel happier and more in my element than being out there, in the wilderness. Backpacking, camping, canoeing, all of it. I also want to make fishing and hunting a large component of my lifestyle one day as well, so I need somebody who feels good about that. I have some artistic bones, I draw and write on occasion, though I haven't had much creative energy lately. I sing a lot, so you will have to put up with that, haha. I also love to cook and experiment with cuisines, and serving somebody a good meal tailored to their wants is one of my greatest pleasures in life. I also generally enjoy working with my hands and take immense pride in my craft, so though I'm currently stuck on the fast food line, I want to take up an apprenticeship for carpentry when I move. I imagine myself as a successful enough snall business owner to be able to build or renovate a home of my own one day... hopefully, with the winan I love.
Now! With that out of the way, what else am I looking for?
I'm not really looking to be anybody's sub quite yet, though I have toyed with the idea. I have some decent experience in kink, and know for a fact I love really putting my muscles to work in bed, as well as bondage and blindfolding. I'm definitely not a sadist, though I do love to bite and deliver a nice spanking ;)
That said, I believe the right person could potentially help me embrace my more submissive side. Being at a beautiful woman's beck and call, serving her dutifully and giving her the utmost love and care... The idea is vague, but it definitely turns me on. I just need somebody to help me sort it out. This also, unsurprisingly, goes hand in hand with cuckolding!
Which, as it happens, is my other primary desire.
I have been cucked before. My last long term relationship was four years, and we broke up about ten months ago, simply because we wanted different things out of life. However, we had a helluva ride, and did some good experimenting with cuckoldry. I love the humiliation aspect of it, the denial, the sort of control my partner would have in our sex life. I love giving my partner the aftercare she needs and deserves after taking a pounding from another man. Being compared harshly to her bulls, being talked down to and degraded(though balanced out with love) is an enormous turn on to me and puts me in that headspace where I not only crave cuckoldry, but also think about femdom in general. I would really like to meet somebody who is interested in the more.... extreme aspects of it. I'm not interested in chastity or being made a "sissy"(God, I despise that word), but.. we should definitely talk more about this one on one. Sound good?
OXOX, I really can't wait to hear from you!
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