Hello! I want to tell you about my secret subversive kink: I get off on watching and controlling girls when then pee. It so sexy to experience the intimacy, the vulnerability, and the power exchange involved.

I would love to meet an adventurous partner who thinks it might be super dirty and hot to occasionally let someone else control something so simple and personal.

Emphasis on “occasionally.” I have plenty of experience with this kink, and I know it’s definitely not a 24/7 or open-ended thing. I also know the importance of building trust and rapport before jumping in.

What I’m imagining is an ongoing relationship (romantic or FWB) featuring predefined bathroom control scenarios. Maybe that is a nice dinner out together, a boring afternoon at work, or a social event where no one else has any idea about the secret game we are playing. Maybe I get to control you between certain hours of the day. Maybe we start with some online play before moving in person. My only hard rule is that when I am I charge, you have to ask permission to pee and follow any instructions you are given.

What you can expect: I am a caregiver Dom, so I’m not going to put you in a compromising or dangerous position. I am not interested in making you hold your bladder for an uncomfortably long time (maybe just a little) or pee your pants, nor am I interested in most traditional ideas about watersports. It’s totally cool if these are your things, but I’m not your guy. I just love the power of having sexy control over a biological imperative 😈

I’m attractive, well-educated, confident, successful, accomplished, and very fun to be around. 46yo, 5’11, broad shoulders. I know I am operating from a position of strength and would enjoy the chance to earn your respect and submission.

Do you think you might like to be a good girl for me? Send me a note with a little description of yourself. I’d love to hear from you!