Welcome! I will do my best to post in a way that is sensitive and considerate. I do not mean any disrespect.
I am pale with light eyes. I grew up in Midwest farm country; I can’t explain it and I am guilty of over analyzing it, but when it comes down to it I am simply drawn to exotic men. I fantasize about a partner with an accent that is different than mine. I find dark skin and features to be incredibly attractive and enticing.
English is my mother tongue, but to me it has never felt like a beautiful language. I am insatiable. I love to learn and study other languages.
I am fortunate when it comes to BDSM. I have had many beautiful experiences as a submissive and even some vanilla ones recently as well. I’ve experimented with being single for a stretch and also with mostly vanilla dynamics. Still, I deeply crave and long for someone to be firm with me.
What draws me to BDSM is the hierarchy and structure. I appreciate the art of negotiating a contract, deciding limits and figuring out what works and communicating about what doesn’t. Fear turns me on. I feel secure when I have a partner who scares me a bit- when it comes to discipline and play I need severity. Gentleness, intimacy and aftercare are as important as harshness- I cannot only have one side of it.
I am not looking for perfection. I cannot offer it either. I am in search of a genuine connection.
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