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Hello! I am a 32 year old, Male Dominant. I am white, 6'3”, lean with short brown hair and brown eyes. I wear glasses. I would say I'm on the handsome side of nerdy. I have around 10 years of experience off and on with the lifestyle and various aspects of BDSM. Some of my experience includes: humiliation, pet play, impact play, wardrobe control, orgasm denial, bondage, light CNC, choking, daily tasks, training, and erotic hypnosis.

In Vanilla life, I enjoy a mixture of indoor and outdoor activities, a nice balance. I like hiking, biking, and going for short camping trips (or really travel in general) as well as staying in for a nice movie night on the couch, board games, video games, or my more personal hobbies of wood working and writing.

I tend to adapt my Dominant style to fit more of the dynamic my sub is looking for, however as a default I would say I fall under the Caregiver type. I enjoy supporting and guiding my submissive and helping them grow, as well as the more mental aspects of domination. That being said, I do not engage in Ageplay (see limits below) and I do not like being called Daddy.

This is not an exhaustive list, but some of my main kinks include: light exhibitionism (nothing that would get us arrested, but I enjoy enjoying my sub to be daring in more private situations like a hike), wardrobe control (deciding my sub's outfit when we go out), and skin on skin contact (naked cuddling in general is a big, non-penetrative kink for me). Recently I've been interested in manhandling. It's not one I've gotten to explore a lot. The idea of just picking my sub up and using her body while she is helpless in my arms has a big appeal for me.

What I am Looking For: BDSM for me is less about the physical aspect and more about the mental aspect/power dynamic. Sometimes this is called a Soft Dom, but this doesn't mean I can't or won't be strict. What it means is I get more enjoyment out of the mental game, of drawing out my submissive's inner desires and convincing them to indulge than I do over typical kink play. I am flexible in what dynamic we build, from more regular dating with BDSM behind closed doors, to a more open dynamic where you will be walking around the house in a collar and leather harness when I have guests over (assuming they consent beforehand, of course).

I like to have more of a connection with my submissive that reaches beyond just our play. I like someone just a little needy, I don't mind texting throughout the day and nothing turns me on more than my submissive letting me know their desire for me, sexual or otherwise. Somewhere between a woman who wants to be held naked in my arms, and tied up and thoroughly used.

I am happy to provide more details and lead the discussion to build a dynamic that fills both of our needs with my future submissive.

Requirements: I do have a few requirements. I'd prefer an age range of 24-30, but my hard age range is 18-39. You must be biologically female (I accept non-binary as long as you are AFAB, no trans). You must be drug and disease free. As I am hoping to indulge in manhandling, you must be between petite to an average body type. A little extra is alright, but no one overweight or BBW. And finally, you must be local to Colorado, preferably within a 3 hour drive of the Denver Metro area (roughly between Colorado Springs to Fort Collins). I have tried longer distance and it just isn't working out.

Limits: This is not a comprehensive list, but these are the primary, hard limits I can think of off the top of my head. I will not engage in: anything illegal that will get us arrested, blood play, vomit play, scat, permanent scarring, heavy impact play that leaves a lot of bruising, Ageplay, diapers, race play, being called “Daddy.”

If you are still interested, fantastic! I would love to hear from you. Send me a message on Reddit, or a chat invite, and after we talk a little bit we can move to a better platform to continue our conversation. However, to help me weed out spam and show me you were paying attention, I've created a little game to play. Below are 3 categories with traits or situations that you may have or find appealing. If you have the trait (for example, long hair) or you like the situation (example, getting naked on a hike), score the points. Tally up your score, and include it in your first message to me! It creates a fun little guessing game for me in return to figure out how you scored, and our conversation can grow from there. Even if you have a low score, or score no points (or are bad at math), feel free to reach out and send me a message if you feel you are absolutely the right submissive for me.

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===Style Category===

Very short hair (like a pixie cut) – 10 points

Long hair (past your shoulders) – 15 points

Dark hair color – 10 points

Red Hair – 15 points

Petite Body – 100 points

Trimmed or Natural pubic hair - 100 points

Goth/Alternative look – 50 points

Change your style regularly – 30 points

Would let your Dom make decisions about your style – 75 points

===Activity Category===

Enjoy video games – 75 points

Play strategy or survival games – 125 points

Enjoy board games - 100 points

Would enjoy a kink game night (where you are in submissive attire such as a harness) – 150 points

Will play DnD – 300 points

Want to travel abroad – 30 points

Will go tent camping – 75 points

Want to get naked on a hike – 250 points

=== Bonus Round! ===

Physical Affection is your main love language – 200 points

Interested in a light TPE – 375 points

Speak Japanese (I travel there often) – 500 points

Would serve with another submissive (after a dynamic between us is firmly established) – 750 points

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And that's it! Add up your total score and send it to me through Reddit Chat or in a private message. I look forward to hearing from my future submissive soon!