Howdy! So, where do I start? I guess I'll tell you about myself.
I'm Kristoff, 22, and currently live in Washington, though I want to move to Maine in the future, because I'm all about cold weather. I'm an avid outdoorsman; I love camping, canoeing, and sharpening my skills and instincts in rough environments, though I'm all for some good, fun recreational hiking! I'm also a great cook, and have a really varied diet. I've been working hard on my weight for a long time, and am making slow but sure progress. I'm a nerd for Fallout, ancient history, and I love a good 80s action flick! I do listen to weird music as well, particularly Worthikids as if late. If you haven't heard Friends In Low Places, I implore you to give it an ear.
There's definitely more, but my book is wide open!
What I'm looking for is a genuine relationship. Not a friend with benefits, not a hookup, just generally nothing casual. I'm not trying to dive right into anything super serious off the bat, so don't worry, but my main goal in life is to to own a little bit of land, build a home, get married, and start a family. If you can possibly conceive of yourself ever getting that serious, I don't think we'll work out. But if you can, let's talk!
What's my type? Well, I'm not picky. Goth chicks, country gals, hippies, aesthetic doesn't matter to me ss much as personality. I just need someone who's genuine, comfortable enough in their own skin to go swimming with me, and doesn't hate life despite its challenges. I'm an optimist, and while pessimism is a natural counterpart to that, I really, really don't want to surround myself with people who let the flaws in the world diminish the hope that things can be better. I know that got pretty real, but I'm a real person, and I hope that helps you figure out a bit about what kind of guy I am.
So, what am I like in terms of kink? Well, I take it more seriously than most guys. Which isn't meant to sound like I'm saying "pick me, I'm not like other guys," I just mean it's an integral part of the love life I want. I'm a dom, though I'm not sadistic, and tend to keep it concealed outside of the bedroom..unless there's a full consent thing going on. I like to tie a girl up, blindfold her, and pound her out as much as the next guy, though I pride myself more on my foreplay game, and aftercare is extremely important to me. I absolutely love giving head and cuddling, and with me, you can expect me to simply go straight from one to the other without even needing penetrative sometimes.
Now.. here's where things get different. I have two sides to my sexuality. Heads is full on dom, and tails is cuckold. Cuckolding runs DEEP for me, and it goes pretty far. I'm not about chastity, branding, or even actually behaving as a sub a lot of the time. But there's nothing hotter to me than a woman I'm with teasing me before she goes to fuck some other guy, leaving me to jerk off thinking about her. If you aren't already interested in cuckolding, or you're thinking "huh, I like this guy but I've never really been into the idea. I guess I'll try to like it," then I don't know if things will pan out well. I'm looking for someone already capable of doing both. Someone who's my loyal sub sometimes, but also gets actively turned on by the idea of cuckolding. Engaging in something consensual, yet also taboo, something that would hurt most men and drive a relationship apart..but can be a source of immense pleasure for both of us.
I know it's a long shot, but I'll just keep trying. If this caught your eye, I'm excited to hear from you!
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