Hello,

I'm a domme looking for a long-term slave in a total power exchange (TPE) relationship. I expect to start out slowly online and get a feel for how we get along while slowly progressing towards our mutually desired end goal in person, wherever that takes us.

My style as a domme in a TPE relationship varies depending on the slave, but generally, there are themes of extended duration bondage (caged, cuffs, room isolation, or any combination), service submission, task completion, and slave training.

About Me

I'm a 37 year old trans woman living in Sydney and I have a penchant for cowboy emojis and saying 'yeehaw'. 🤠

I should point out straight away that my libido is unpredictable and often very low (but not non-existent), so if you're looking for a relationship where getting off is a key theme then I'm not the person for you.

Outside of BDSM I am broadly interested in science, technology, PC gaming, and lately UFOs/UAP. I'm generally fairly quiet and prefer to be unnoticed. As an introvert, I prefer keeping a very small social circle of high quality friends. I'm reluctant to let go of being an optimist, although lately I'm becoming somewhat of a doomer, concerned about the future of our civilisation and the direction it's heading, mostly stemming from unmitigated capitalism. Idealistically, I would like to live in a world where people were free to be themselves and we worked towards the greater good of our species and the planet. Realistically, that's not the world we live in though, and even at my age I'm still learning to accept to that. (Yes, all of that is actually a personality trait and explains a lot about me lol)

As for BDSM, I am everything I despise about real life (but at least we have consent and safe words)! I'm controlling, dominant, authoritative, oppressive, you name it. I really enjoy being in control, especially in situations where that control is reinforced externally (e.g. with a bondage cage, ropes, etc). I have about 10 years of experience and I'm always learning more, trying to be the best domme I can be. I want to work with the slave to make the dynamic fulfilling for both of us. In that way I can be flexible to the slave's individual needs, as long as my core needs are being met as well. Let me control your life!

While I do like to be playful and joke around, I would like to be clear that what I offer is very serious and I take that responsibility very seriously.

As a dominant, my only limits are wilful disobedience and dishonesty.

About You

Ideally, I think the type of person most suited to be my slave would have some or most of the following traits:

• Be an introverted, indoorsy type
• Completely submissive (ie not a brat and probably not a switch)
• Find fulfilment in serving others
• Enjoys PC gaming
• Has at least some interest in science and technology
• Highly adaptable and willing to do what you are told, rather than trying to anticipate needs
• Experienced as a slave, or have enough general experience to know that a TPE relationship is for you
• Willing to communicate openly and honestly
• Dedicated to making the relationship work

Further, you have a strong interest in (among others):

• Long-term bondage
• TPE
• Service submission
• Dehumanisation
• Latex

Of course, no one fits neatly into lists like that, nor are there any hard rules demanding that I would only like those types of people. However, based on past experience, the more of those boxes you tick the more likely we are to get along.

As for characteristics such as age, gender, and so on, this is less important to me, but generally I prefer:

• Age to be closer to my own than further away
• Strong preference for trans people
• Prefer someone in Australia or New Zealand but anywhere is fine
• I'm monogamous but open to the idea of having more than one slave
• Physical appearance isn't important to me as I can change you to my liking, but if that raises any issues with you then you should state that upfront
• Despite advertising as T4T, if you don't identify as trans, but feel strongly compelled to reach out for whatever reason, you can, but please start your message with 'Keystone' without the quotes.

Next Steps

If after reading all that and you're interested in reaching out, please feel free to do so. You may send a message or start a chat.

I would like you to answer the following two questions when contacting me:

1. What does your ideal realistic (non-fantasy) TPE dynamic look like?
2. What about this post suggests that I would be an ideal dominant to you individually?

Once those questions are answered, please feel free to say anything else you would like.

Thank you for your time, pardna'. 🤠