I’m an experienced Dominant seeking a D/s or M/s dynamic, not just a play partner. For me, this is a lifestyle… a relationship. Not just kink. If this is what you seek, please keep reading.

I think the challenge of these kinds of online posts is differentiating yourself from all the other people. I know we’re all looking for that right match. So what differentiates me? I’m a giver. I’m a protector. I take care of everyone before I take care of myself. I’m level headed. Measured. Calculated. Emotionally intelligent. A caretaker. I bring a lot to the table.

In return, I want a partner that bring a lot to the table. Someone that identifies as a submissive or a slave. I want someone service oriented. A caretaker. Someone very capable. She has her shit together. She knows that I will take care of everything else and her job is simply to serve and take care of me, her Dominant. She enjoys more traditional gender roles and taking care of the home. I don’t necessarily need her to be experienced, but it is a major bonus if she’s experienced in a D/s or M/s dynamic.

The dynamic itself will be 24/7. I love structure. Rules/discipline are a must. There will be traditional aspects of D/s - kneeling, collars, protocol, titles, etc. This does not mean we won’t have a practical life, but it means our dynamic and our places will always exist, even in the mundane. It will be a bit more subtle at times - in public, with family/friends, or other situations that we work together to define. Safety will always come first - physically, emotionally, mentally. As I said, I’m a protector… a damn good one. In a perfect world, the dynamic would be TPE - but this isn’t a must.

Physically I’m 6’0” and fairly fit. I live an active lifestyle and prefer a partner that is active to some extent and works hard to take care of herself. Age wise… 20-40. I’m pretty open. Connection is most important. Would probably even consider someone older than that if the connection was right.

If this resonated with you… please reach out. I’d love to meet you.