I'm a 37 Dom living in Northeast Ohio, been into kink for about 20 years. I'm looking for something ideally long term; a relationship with a female sub/bottom that is complimentary and meshes well with my life. I am a solid mix of DaddyDom and Sadist. I don't skimp on aftercare and I genuinely want the best from and for people. While generally relaxed, I'm quite rigid with my methods and firm believer in discipline. Impact play is my artform of expression; my crop, flogger, and cane are extensions of my being. They're my paintbrushes, if you will. I’ve even taught classes in my local kink community on impact play and other topics. Rope is a relatively recent addition to my skill set (last three years or so) but one I’m very skilled and dedicated to it. Other primary kinks include, but not limited to: power exchange dynamics, biting, hair pulling, orgasm control, slave training, DDlg, TPE, CNC, breathplay, anal, receiving body worship/oral, cunnilingus, petplay (I like kitties), free use, and human doll. My paraphilias are quite prevalent as well. Fishnet is the most surefire way to get my attention, followed very closely by ballgags, stockings and platform heels. I don’t switch; I can’t take pain, I can only give it (sensory issues). I’m really big on consent though. Strange as this may sound: I am a feminist and I respect a woman's right to choose (including the choice to bottom in a power exchange). Self-description: I’m 168 cm tall (I like the metric system because I don't have a foot fetish rimshot), stocky/Dad bod that I'm frequently at the gym working on. I rock a shaved head and I have green eyes. I have a college education and I'm a fully functioning, independent adult. I don't have tattoos or body mods yet but I do have many planned. Personality wise, I’m excessively polite and formal with everyone. I tend to always go the extra mile to help people with things; this sometimes gets me into trouble but nothing I overly regret. Side effects of being neurodiverse, I guess. That or being a secular humanist...hard to tell at this point.

Vanilla stuff: I really enjoy video gaming (I have most systems), sports (especially football, rugby, hockey, and lacrosse), movies, documentaries, music (classical to rock and especially metal), museums, zoos (I'm a walking Nat Geo special), boardgames, roleplaying games and more. I also like being outdoors; cutting wood, hiking, camping, and activities of self-sufficiency. I’m like a jack of all trades and probably the best team member in a zombie apocalypse.

I look forward to hearing from you! ~H.