28 year old trans guy in UK, looking for a Dom to play with. It'd be great to have in person meet ups, but happy to talk about arrangements depending on our proximity. I'm asexual, and looking to explore power dynamics and kinks outside sex. It'd also be awesome to find someone who'd be interested in being friends as well.
Generally, I'm very habitual. I love exercise, making things, and am always looking for things to learn. It's a weird day if I haven't had my "Ooh, that'd make a great project!" moment. I emphasise listening and finding ways to honour the needs of others while also being clear if something isn't for me. I really do value directness. Tell me what you'd like - that leaves the guesswork for things like working out how to make/get you meaningful birthday gifts!
I will say I'm quite inexperienced, but I do have a clear idea of what I'm into. I'm definitely obedient over bratty, and like to make people happy. However, I do like punishment, especially if it's not entirely fair, used as a way to make me dependent on the Dom, or to train. Also like being bullied. So, if you're a sadist - hit me up (no pun intended).
In the interest of keeping things relatively short, here are some other things I'm into:
-Pet Play
-Chastity devices
-Collaring and ownership
- Humiliation/Degradation
-Spanking, caning, etc.
-Manhandling/Rough
Open to exploring - just let me know and we'll chat about it.
And some hard limits:
-Anything illegal
-Public play
-Knives/Guns
-Bodily fluids/substances
-Misgendering
-Feminisation
-Findom
Any gender welcome (T4T always appreciated!), but ideally between 25-35.
Thanks for reading :) If this all sounds good to you, send over a message introducing yourself, your interests, and what you're looking for.
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