BDSM has allowed me to become the best version of myself, in all ways - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing, strong, patient, and compassionate when needed. My ability to connect with a sub and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience - sex is a part of that but I also seek to understand, shape, and improve my sub's mind. As an academic with training in trauma therapy, I have found bdsm to be a healthy outlet so pro-mental health. I am PhD educated and take my role as therapy Dom seriously.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm and goal oriented. Professionally, I am a serial entrepreneur and at-large consultant with a large degree of flexibility in travel and schedule. My personal interests include all things history and politics (I am also a part-time lobbyist), backcountry hiking, and poker tournaments. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg (without extreme age-play), rule based dynamics, restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years.

You: Prepare to be vulnerable, my non-negotiable is emotional connection. Be ready to submit to a process driven form of psychological bdsm where we explore past traumas, current obstacles, and future goals. Be ready to meet for physical sessions within a reasonable period of time. Be prepared to submit to my ground rules of absolute honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Be ready to travel, go on adventures, experience much more than typical bdsm if we connect. I live, work, and play between Memphis, Nashville, ATL, and Birmingham. Will venture further if you attract my attention sufficiently.

If interested, I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility, the first step is you DMing me your interest in my approach.