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KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!! Just for FUN! Seeking Advice FIRST POST! Please be nice! Ready, set, DISCUSS! bi vers non-mono switch boy - never make decisions![he/him] Kinky Me! -- AMA, Autobiographical Post or 7 in 7 Audio Question / advice This phrase made me think... Twisted Prince Charming BDSM and Science ** N4N Column ** TALE (so THIS happened!) or IDEA to share. Not erotica, please! Off-Topic Tuesday [she/her] brat at your service! FriYAY Q+A! (he/him) "No, no 'dy'. My kink is pun-filled life advice Thorns and Roses Thursday she/her Does't understand time or spelling Melomaniac Cinephile (he/him) Fragen für Freitag (he/him) not that cruel Mental Monday: the playground of the mind insatiable attention whore [she/her] Second Saturday Creative Writing and sometimes spicy questions killjoy extraordinaire Story/thing to share: this is NOT erotica or wank fodder Inquisitor Non-binary Dominant (He/him/They/them) view more
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to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for Master and I had our recollaring ceremony! We happened to have a photoshoot planned with our favorite kink-focused photographer at the same time, so we had our recollaring photographed! image
Master and I had our recollaring ceremony! We happened to have a photoshoot planned with our favorite kink-focused photographer at the same time, so we had our recollaring photographed!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for My metamour/sister sub was visiting for a few weeks, so I made her a few paintings as gifts! The first is for her to take home with her, the second is for our Dom to display on his wall image
My metamour/sister sub was visiting for a few weeks, so I made her a few paintings as gifts! The first is for her to take home with her, the second is for our Dom to display on his wall
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for Had a lovely sleepover date with my metamour/sub sister, we made cute "About Us" posters for our Dom to hang on his wall! image
Had a lovely sleepover date with my metamour/sub sister, we made cute "About Us" posters for our Dom to hang on his wall!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by int0_everything
1 year ago
Behavioral modification and punishment
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for Guess who got some new gear!! I'm slowly discovering my "kink aesthetic" and having fun with the process image
Guess who got some new gear!! I'm slowly discovering my "kink aesthetic" and having fun with the process
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by PureSwitch13
1 year ago
Any switches ever question their switchiness? (also..a switch tale)
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for Part 2 of the watercolor collage series I'm making for my Master! Swipe -> to see both works on his wall 😌 image
Part 2 of the watercolor collage series I'm making for my Master! Swipe -> to see both works on his wall 😌
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by PureSwitch13
1 year ago
Preview thumbnail for I prefer spanking, but I think claw marks look hotter image
I prefer spanking, but I think claw marks look hotter
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by PureSwitch13
1 year ago
The psychology of bratting
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by PureSwitch13
1 year ago
What are your kinks and where do they come from?
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Flow_Cascade
1 year ago
Should I have ghosted this person? I'm wondering if I should have told them why I was not feeling good about their communications anymore.
Seeking Advice
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by desademona
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for One of my Christmas presents for Master this year! Something I thought up and executed a day before Christmas Eve...quite proud of the result! image
One of my Christmas presents for Master this year! Something I thought up and executed a day before Christmas Eve...quite proud of the result!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by SirCallsMeLilith
10 months ago
Is Prolonged Subfrenzy possible?
Seeking Advice
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by chained_rose
1 year ago
Preview thumbnail for Everybody said it wasn't bruised enough. How about now? Didn't work the brat out of me the first time. Do you think this punishment did? image
Everybody said it wasn't bruised enough. How about now? Didn't work the brat out of me the first time. Do you think this punishment did?
Just for FUN!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by urLordV
2 months ago
Let's play a game, real or fantasy
Just for FUN!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by urLordV
2 months ago
Unexplored kinks
Just for FUN!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by SilkenClaws
6 months ago
RANT: Appearance is not the foundation of female dominance
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by DontBeDumbMorty
8 months ago
As experienced kinksters, help me write a new personals ad.
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by DontBeDumbMorty
8 months ago
Thanks for the invite. Happy to be here.
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by urLordV
2 months ago
Nosy Neighbors
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by urLordV
2 months ago
Completely Random Promt
Just for FUN!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by athos786
1 year ago
A question avoiding previous problems
Seeking Advice
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mastersobedienttits
1 year ago
I need help naming this kink
This phrase made me think...
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by glass_pebble_girl
8 months ago
How you met your lover/partner/friend/insert adjective here
Just for FUN!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by athos786
1 year ago
What is the female equivalent of "forced" crossdressing for men?
FIRST POST! Please be nice!