My man is a businessman and wants to loose control every now and then. He wants to be disciplined and made to control his orgasm.

Please help me understand how do i do this?

I wanna know what should I say to him, what kinda mindset i should have.. I lean towards being angry and mean.. a bit.. like i would like to be rough and strict and he said he likes that

Yet i am hesitant because I have always been a sweet girl.

I want to know what I should do to him to control for example if he is going to cum, do i stop?

Saw some videos where the guy cums without permission and she doesnt stroke him.. is this a part of this, like a punishment for cumming without permission or should i help him cum totally ?

i understand how he would feel frustrated if i dont help him cum totally and how that would feel fantastic.

Please help me more. Would really appreciate it!