The Dom I've started seeing recently is aromantic. The only aftercare I'm familiar with other than getting food is like cuddling and talking, romantic type stuff. But I'm like 90% sure he's not interested in cuddling, the first time we played there wasn't any aftercare at all (it was quick and unplanned). Which is no biggie, but we're gonna crank up the intensity significantly, beyond the intensity of anything I've experienced before (CNC and way intense impact play and overstimulation), and eventually once we know each other better and have a sufficient amount of trust and whatnot we've talked about doing some risky CNC stuff eventually. So I know aftercare is gonna be kind of necessary. I'm just not really sure how to approach it or like ask for it or anything or what non-romantic aftercare looks like.