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Does having a collar denote exclusivity to a Dom/Domme?
Is anyone collared and poly? What is that dynamic like?
collared and polyamorous here. so like i only have one domme and will probably only ever have one, since im usually dominant. for me, it does represent a commitment that is permanent and unique, like a sort of wedding ring, but with a different set of baggage. i have another partner who might marry me, and then ill have two pieces of jewelry that represent my commitments.
i know some polyam people are weird about being on a date with someone while theyre wearing their collar because its a reminder of other relationships. but like... would they mind a wedding ring? a sentimental necklace? and like if the bdsm bothers them, that doesnt end in the bedroom for me so its gonna be a problem.
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