9/10 times I’ll be on a site like FET going thru my dms there’s a bunch of “I wanna be your bitch boy “ messages. But half of the subs #1 don’t understand what it means and they don’t get to come telling me what they need as if this is a transaction OR they start coming as if hooking up is even part of my wants. If I ask for a tribute to simply not waste my time, I’m called a scammer. However, I’ve wasted 2-3 days texting with a sub who straight out blocked me on everything then came back and chatted with me again. Then once again dropped off the face of the earth. I understand subs are risky and can leave when they please but I feel like there’s something I’m not doing right ! I also would love to take some of the Fetlife Photographers up on their offers but I find it distasteful thinking about if my photos are going to be shared. Anyone’s feedback is greatly appreciated thanks