I've been in the lifestyle for a solid 15 years and have found that as long as there's a will there's a way... That holds true from both sides. If you're willing, it will work. I truly believe these words and have experienced that, as I'm sure you have, in many relationships in life (whether it's within the lifestyle, at work, friendships or otherwise). When the effort stops, so does the relationship.

So... That's my first and foremost, as the title suggests; you need to be enthusiastic about being dedicated to being a Sub. I enjoy giving tasks, I enjoy seeing the results, hearing about the results, and encouraging you with my responses.

I'm a very encouraging man, with a soft and hard side, depending on what the occasion calls for. Am I a DD? I can be... Am I a Sadist? I can be... Do I enjoy TPE? If the dynamic calls for, I can be...

A close second, as I'm sure you also know to effort, is communication. Without it any relationship is lost. Voicing expectations, right from the start is beyond important. If you, or I, have expectations and don't voice them they'll go unmet which inevitably leads to a slow relationship death.

What am I looking for?

• Dedication and devotion
• Communication
• As long as you're 18 I truly don't care about your age as long as you're mature enough to maintain being a Sub
• Experienced or Inexperienced; does not matter, I will train you to be my Sub whether you're experienced or not
• Up for doing tasks; I do love assigning tasks on the regular. I'll obviously be understanding of your schedule, but you do need to make time for me and these

In response to this, I'd like to give you your first small task when you're messaging me. Tell me your first name, your preferred honorifics (if you have any), your age, what first sparked your interest in the lifestyle, what makes you interested in me and what makes you think you'd be the right Sub, and (if you're up for it at this stage) I'd like to see what you look like.

I'm not one that rushes things, we have all the time in the world, but when you know you know... I look forward to hearing from you and our new beginning!