Hey y’all

2024 has been the year of putting myself out there and I figured I might start doing that in more kink-centered spaces since they align best with my desires and intentions.

The non-sexy but important bits:

I am - pre-op transmasc whose been on T for quite a few years - a heavy dude who is very body positive - currently living in small town Oregon - employed - strictly monogamous - a parent to 1 teen (I have no desire to have more kids myself but I’m not opposed to connecting with someone that’s also a parent) - very into honesty & transparency - a dog person - into self development - a nature lover who enjoys outings to the woods & water but, at the end of the day, my home is my safe space - newly getting into health & wellness

The sexier bits:

I’m a loving & experienced dom looking for a sub or sub-leaning switch with similar kinks & compatibilities. The end game here is to find the one I connect with on a soul level who’ll wear my collar one day. I’m looking to really get to know each other first & not rush into anything. I want something that feels good and natural and I know that won’t happen with just anybody.

I’m into power exchange, ownership, behavior modification, sensuality, sadism (nothing extreme), impact play, edging, routines… I’m also very turned on by chastity but it’s one kink I’ve not gotten to explore properly yet. Always doing aftercare.

Not into pillow princes. I want a submissive who is eager to please me. Brownie points if you’re down to be a human pet and/or personal cum slut. I enjoy a D/s dynamic that spills into everyday life in appropriate & sometimes subtle ways.

Enthusiastic consent and clear communication are HOT 🥵

I’m a masc who is typically attracted to other masc-leaning and/or androgynous folks. That’s not restricted to any particular gender.

I’m open to initial long distance. & I’m up for exchanging pics early on to make sure we have some basic physical attraction before diving too deep.

Don’t be a stranger! Feel free to reach out, if you think we might click.

P.s. Hard limits are gore, scat and age play