Cross posted

Not really sure how to start these. What I’m looking/wanting is a long term monogamous relationship, a connection that goes beyond sexual, I need mental and emotional stimulation. I can and will do long distance, but if all goes well and we have established something great, I would eventually like to work out or discuss some sort of an in person meet up(s). Age isn’t really an issue for me as long as the emotional maturity is there. Aftercare for both of us is a requirement not an option or given as a reward.

Some things I enjoy are edging, denial and forced orgasms, spitting, degradation and of course pain with various toys/objects, leave your mark to remind me who I kneel for! I’m sure there’s more but that can be saved for later conversations

Things I’m definitely willing to try and have a huge interest in is bondage, rope play, breath play, anal, impact play, cnc, again I’m sure there’s more but for now thats what I’ll list

I don’t want all seriousness though, I’d like to think I was pretty laid back and a bit of a procrastinator, I make jokes of all varieties from lame and dry to dark humor and I can be sarcastic. I want conversation not just simple one or two worded responses, I want to laugh and joke and just to be able to be free with each other. I love having cute nicknames too!

I don’t want everything to be about sex nor do I want this to be some sort of kink dispensary exchange or a fling. I want to get to know the person I give my submission to, I want to know you as equals outside of being D/s. Let’s crawl into each other’s minds and wake up the parts that are dormant, let’s make a mental connection that leads to emotional and in turn an irresistible sexual connection! I want you to mark my body with your hand(s) and my mind with your words. Lead me and give me structure, rules and a sense of peace. Let’s be for each other what we haven’t been able to find.

When messaging, tell me what your favorite song is and why it’s Sleep Tokens Give 💋

Human behavior flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge. -Plato