Hello! Thank you for reading and hopefully I can catch your eye. Don't be afraid or shy to hit me up and chat/ask questions.
What I am looking for: I am looking for a woman who would be interested in being a sub/pet with me as the full time Dom/owner. In particular I am not looking for a specific dynamic at the moment just someone that I can call mine.
- I am looking for someone who is interested in a long term dynamic/relationship.
- I want to find someone whom a relationship can be built with whether it's close friends or romantic or primary play partners. I find it important that we can enjoy each other's company outside of the dynamic
- Open to building a dynamic that matches us
- Want someone who is willing to explore and grow in the kink world.
- preferably someone that is local to Vegas but I do travel to Southern California for family and willing to have someone from out of state depending on if they can host.
- I am also open to anyone in adjacent states to southern Nevada. Utah, Arizona, southern California so long as you can either travel or host.
What to expect: - I would like to have a couple of play nights/days a week depending on how our schedules look, I am able to host. - I am into a lot of play types, some of my favorites are TPE, rules/tasks, rope play, wax play, etc. - I am new to some stuff such as rope play for example and would love to find someone who wants to model/practice with me - I am very big on communication and talking daily. So please also be understanding and open with that as again this should also be a relationship of some sort. - I want to say now that I do enjoy some bratty behavior because what fun is there getting your way all the time but I am not a brat tamer or believe I can handle a full time brat. - I do want/value submission and put in the work to earn it - This would be a very nurturing and healthy dynamic that I want to create where you can express yourself and grow. - I do also ask that you are ready to verify yourself. One for safety reasons if we are going to meet up. The second being I do believe that physical attraction does matter even if it's not the most important and we should have some mutual attraction.
I am in an ethical non-monogomy relationship with my long distance partner. She is aware of this post. So please either practice or be respectful of that as I would not give her up. She will not be involved in this at all or would you be involved in that relationship. My partner is bi and open to more but this does require our trust and discussion before anything were to happen. I am not opposed to someone with a primary partner(s) as well.
I do ask that when you message please use chat and tell me a bit about yourself such as what you are looking for and your personality whether it's you or your play persona. This helps to kick things off and not play the 20 questions game.
A little about me: I am a 31 white male, currently living in Las Vegas, 5'9" and have a bit of a dad bod. Working on it but at the same time more than happy to lean into the dad role.
- I am a big nerd. I love my video games, manga, comics, movie/game franchises.
- If you are curious I play really everything cause there's something to be loved. To give you a taste I play monster hunter, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Pokemon.
- recently into the Pokemon TCG and definitely need some one to play with
- I love video games a ton and can always find the joy in them even when they are awful.
- I work from home which gives me plenty of time to talk or play. Personality wise, I am a homebody I find it relaxing and fun but I do enjoy going out.
- I have a dry sense of humor. Witty jokes are great but I mean I will absolutely giggle as someone saying penis or boobs.
- Immature looking sure but I am constantly trying to be personal day to day that the silliest of stuff gets me.
- I own 1 dog who is my current brat. Not even joking I accidentally made her a spoiled brat but she's still the best.
Dom Style: I am genuinely a soft dom. I love to praise and reward my sub/pet. I can be strict when I want and love to take control but always I make everything completable because I do want you to succeed and be praised. I have practiced and started getting used to being more firm when it comes to impact and punishments just don't expect to have major bruises or impact marks. Teasing and overstimulation are definitely my specialty you either get a little or more than you asked for. But otherwise I am someone who if you want to grow with or have kinks to explore more than happy to look into them together.
Kinks: - Anal - humiliation - TPE(24/7) - bondage - any type of complete control (orgasm, schedule, clothing, etc) - pet play - wax play - rope play - etc... - I am more of a try something first and then determine my limits so not much off the table. - All of my kinks are non-mandatory I just listed what I enjoy that I could remember so please don't feel obligated.
Hard limits: - Scat - weapons(knives/guns) - blood, heavy pain (receiving or giving) - animals
Apologies if too long hopefully it's in a digestible format to read lol.
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