Preliminary note, since it will be important for some of you : I am an early transition trans woman, out in safe circles, not hormones yet. My pronouns are she/her. Also, I am polyamourous.

Now that we have adressed what will make some of you flee... let's see about what will hopefully make the rest of you stay.

Non kinky interests Because before being a Kinky person, I am a Human being with a beating heart, here are my general interests. It would be sweet if we shared some of them, because I am not only looking for a Dom-me - I also want a friend and possibly a lover ; deep connections at the very least.

• I love reading /literature in general, and poetry in particular. I would love to find another poetry driven soul.
• I take great interest in philosophy, politics, human behaviour, queer theory.
• I am an activist for Human Rights. That takes some time and energy but is very much worth it.
• I absolutely love music (folk and poetic lyrics but also free jazz, black metal and techno. Yes, my neighbours love me, why do you ask ?)

Kinky interests - TPE, power dynamics, protocols in general. - Chastity play, teasing, denial. - Service submission - Humiliation - Pain play - Anal

I also have limits ; I haven't listed them here because I prefer to discuss everything that we will do. Yes, even what I listed as interest. It goes without saying that we will both have safewords.

You will be my Dom-me and take control over my life, but I also want to have sweet, romantic times and never-ending discussions.

Another thing is, I am very much into the psychological aspect of BDSM. I need to know the reason for everything happening. "Because it pleases me" is a very good reason ; I still need to hear it. I also tend to overthink everything.

Some general, boring stuff to read before applying - I am in my early thirties ; your age doesn't matter. - Your gender doesn't matter - I am mostly available evenings CET time - I work full time - I am looking for either online, or an IRL relationship. I'd relocate for the right person.

In your first message, please include your age, your pronouns and your general location. Please do NOT include a dick pic.

Also remember : the way you introduce yourself will tell me way more than any question I could ask you.